HELP PLEASE!

[JR0789]

hey, thank you for taking the time to read this, i have been freaking out so much lately, :(
I had met a girl online and had gone out on a few dates with her, yes we did have sex... but prior to us being "together" she let me know in advance that she was on birth control, and of course i used a condom(never without!!!).. and she ended up having her period right on me while we were intimate together...  and a few days later she sends me an email saying how i'm not worth being near her nor in a relationship with her... come to find out a week later she tells me that she's two weeks pregnant. is that even possible? i've asked all my friends and family and they say that it's not and that i have nothing toworry about. but it's still bothering the heck out of me; i've lost sleep, havent been able to concintrate at all.
she said she had gone to a hospital/clinic to get blood test to see if she's pregnant, but she isnt telling me where to go to find the test results... and she's being completely rude to me in my inquiries about what to do, and telling me that i wont have anything to do with it even if it's mine and that i'm just a child support check to her. should i approach her with a pregnancy test and have her take it in front of me? the only conversations her and have had since she left is through text, which is a horrible way to talk anyway. and has no desire to meet in person... please help :(

[AnnieBrooke]

If that bleeding on the 21st of July was a period, then she would not ovulate until at LEAST a week later, probably two weeks later (i.e., today).  She could not even know she was pregnant yet, on that timeline.

Anyway, again, don't fall for the drama games.  She is just trying to get your attention or get your goat.  Stay away like you would from a rattlesnake about to strike.

[JR0789]

The last time her and i had sex was the 21st of july, and she was still bleeding. something of note too when we "broke up" she had insulted along with saying she had plenty(roughly 15) guys calling her wanting sex, and her ex husband wanting to have sex with her too on a weekly basis... but when she told me she was pregnant she said that she had made it up... ugh

thank you for being patient and giving great advise! :)

[Kayannaboo]

I agree with Annie, she might just be lying and tell her there is no way u r paying child without proof that she's even pregnant and definately not without a DNA test. Do not let it get to u too much she probably just wants attention Ive seen it alot of times believe it or not smh

[AnnieBrooke]

If she has no desire to meet in person, showing up with a pregnancy test and demanding she pee on it is not going to do much good.

Don't get hooked on the drama.  If she were really pregnant, she would have given you the name of the doctor, and permission for the doctor's staff to discuss everything with you.

How long has it been since the last time you had sex?  Was it the time her period came during the sex?  If so, you know the first day of her last period.  The way pregnancy is counted by s doctor begins with the first day of the last period (presumably the one you saw).  She would then have ovulated two weeks later, and a pregnancy test would not come up positive for two more weeks.  There is no way she would be able to tell you only two weeks from the beginning of a period that she was pregnant, she would scarcely have ovulated by that time.

If you aren't going to believe your family and friends, I don't know why you would be reassured by someone on the Internet, but if she had a period when you say she did in relation to when she told you she is pregnant, the whole thing is made up.

My suggestion is that you send her one last text, no further after that, and say that regarding child support, you will require a DNA test of course.  Then no more contact.  She is playing a game, you should not indulge her (or yourself) by freaking out and playing the game right back.