Hi again. I posted something on here only about 2 days ago wanting to know how to get back to a good place in a relationship. Well, now I'm wondering when you know to just give in and say good bye?
Now, when I feel calm and rational, I feel that I am still in love with Bob*. But when we start fighting, or I get mad, upset, frustrated etc...I feel very torn, and am not sure if I even really LIKE him anymore. I have become a firm believer in the fact that it is more important to LIKE the person you are with than to LOVE them. (Don't get me wrong, both are vital, but without LIKE, LOVE will never be enough)
Anyway...things have just taken a turn for the worst lately, and they don't seem to ever get any better. And if there is any resolution in sight, it doesn't really last too long. So, back to my original question...When do you know if it is time to say Good Bye?
We have been together now for 6 years, but we aren't exactly "compatible". We are very oposite. He is very organized, logical, pretty level headed etc...whereas I am very scatterbrained, messy, I procrasitnate etc...
We thought that we could deal with eachother's differences, but lately they seem to come back into question a lot more. Now we are even starting to put boundaries on everything that we can/can't say to eachother, what we can do around eachother, it is getting rediculous.
So, I'm just wondering if my dislike towards him may just be because I'm mad, or is there really something there, and we should just leave eachother to find people better suited to us?
Thank you for the help.