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How often do you and your mate have sex

lol.  now ladies don't lie, but lets hear how often we all are having sexual relations with our partners?  Might be an interesting subject.
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Omg before I got pragnet it was like 3-6 times a day because he was home most of the time now that I am pragnet 2-3 times a day because my sex drive went down but he never gets tired and wants more eventhough the doc said no more sex to us when I was 4 months because I had really bad cramping and bleeding well we just didn't do it violently and decreased on the amount and tomorrow I am 37 weeks Ahhh almost there I just want to do it like we use to before ..
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My boyfriend is almost two hours away, so we only see each other every or every other weekend. The weekends that we spend together, we usually get a good 3 times or so.
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I have sex with my me whenever I can. we have 3 children now and it's really hard to get around to it. I would say around the average of once a week. I go to school and work my man work second shift so that's what it's like having 3 children and trying to have sex.
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My hubby is a sex machine he works two jobs gets up at 4 am gets off at 2pm then goes to his second job its like his hungry and you have to eat!!! Some times i have to pretend im asleep my sex drive is down in the drains sigh..
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Anywhere from 10-20 a weeks
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300987 tn?1219983665
At least once a day...I'm sure it will change once our baby is born.
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172411 tn?1287086265
laura: not that long ago we talk about this lol..... i really need 2 talk 2 u.. things are pretty bad on my end. hopefully i can talk with you on monday weekends i dont have space..
ksanden
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346292 tn?1216415095
gosh please tell me what you all do ...because im lucky if i get it once every 2 weeks....and thats begging........
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286776 tn?1268874332
Well...i dont know what it is with him, or maybe me but 1-2 times a wk is good enough for both of us. Its always better after its been a while.
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Hey Girls! Got some more last night and this morning!!
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212795 tn?1194952574
Hahaha!  It does!  
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LOL...thanks for that ray of hope :))  I was the same way with DD.  Had no desire while I was pregnant or breastfeeding her.  When I was done b/feeding her, all of a sudden I was in the mood almost every day.
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we have sex at least 4 to 5 times a week some of them have to be quickies before the kids get up its mostly the morning we have sex my partner is working through the nights so we have to have it in the morning before had my daughter it was aleast 4 times a day now i feel we dont have it alot i know it sounds alot but i doesnt feel it lol
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Sounds like our guys are related!  =)
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212795 tn?1194952574
Really?  My fiance can be exhausted, starving, or sick as a dog and he still wants it.  lol  AND over the past few weeks we started getting up at 5am to work out at our gym before going to work.  I am wiped out at the end of the day, and he is ready for some booty!  
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286776 tn?1268874332
WOW  i have to disagree with that, my bf is always too tired for anything. Then again he had been working 5am -4pm everyday. But that is slowing down
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212795 tn?1194952574
3-4 times a week, and then weekends a couple of times a day:)  Sometimes more, sometimes less.  Sometimes we travel over to a parent's house and no booty happens:(  Of course there are those days where honestly all I want him to do is rub my feet because I am so tired.  It just depends..  One thing I notice - men are never too tired for sex!
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Got some at 2:30AM this morning!!
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167 tn?1374173817
I rarely venture over to this forum these days but had to comment on this one. Seems like we are pretty normal. Four daughters...full time jobs, both in school and a 5 month old baby who has lots of doctors appts lately. I'm still getting up at night a few times to feed him. We are both exhausted! We average about every 3 days. It's a struggle to even do that but we both know it's important. He initiates because I have NO drive while breastfeeding...but I put out because I know he needs it. Honestly, I would be happy with once a month...it wouldn't bother me one bit.
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it will come back after your kids get a little older.  happen to me and my husband too when our kids were babies, so have no fear.
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I'm with mozartcowgirl...what's sex???   I'm 25 weeks pregnant, have a 14 month old DD, work full time...I have no desire or energy for sex.  I love my DH for not pushing it on me.  He's a sweetheart.
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what is the name of the stuff you are on?  are you on testosterone at all, because my mom takes a little dose of this so that her sex drive didn't go away after having her full hyster.
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146191 tn?1236877812
haha! good answer! i love it.
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332074 tn?1229560525
Once a week, but I could do it more if the hubby was willing. I have to say that I had a hysterectomy in July and this has totally changed our sex life. I struggled prior to the surgery because sex was always painful, however now I have no pain and am also taking an hrt that really increases your sex drive so I could have it everyday it he would let me.
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