How to approach a guy youre interested in

[theflowers]

Its this cute guy that works in this fast food place that i go to sometimes. He always nice and hes really attractive but, im not sure on how to start a conversation with him or get his #. It'll just seem weird b/c im use to men approaching me not the other way around. I dont want to keep going in there spending my money just so that i can talk to him  lol. Plus he could have a gf. Any suggestions?

[Nighthawk61]

"Hey handsome, can you think of any good reason why i shouldn't ask you out? " is a good line, one that'll go down in history if anything good comes from it. Fortune favors the brave.

[Nighthawk61]

If he seems interested - ask him to have coffee with you after his shift just to see if the conversation is as stimulating as his hot bod. lol

[Nighthawk61]

That way you can figure out if you even want to give him your number out - or not..

[Nighthawk61]

I gather from your posts you're about 25? and i'm thinking that that's probably his age? I personally wouldn't bother asking a guy out that works in fast food if they're in their mid 20's, uniess they're going to college already - that's what i'd be finding out during our coffee date as well as if he's in good standing with his family - what activities he does (no couch potatoes) what hobbies he's interested in - whether he smokes dope (1/2 his paycheck going up in smoke?) etc. Good luck with it  ...

[specialmom]

That's tricky because he is working when you see him and chit chatting/flirting with you would be counterproductive to his doing his job.  Let me ask you this . . .  is this just based on looks that you think you want to go out with him? I'm just wondering because I see the same people where I frequent and may admire how they look but understand that we've never even had a real conversation other than based on me ordering or buying something.  
Do you know anything about him?  Know anyone who knows him? would be easier to get to know him outside of his place of business to have the conversation about going out.

Otherwise, write your name on a piece of paper saying I'd like to get to know you better and hand it to him at the restaurant and hope for the best.  That's my suggestion.

[theflowers]

No, we haven't had a conversation.  I just think hes attractive and seems nice.  It would be easier if I did know someone that knew him.

Once, I had a guy that worked in a store hand me his #  but that didn't work out. I think I'll be nervous to give this guy my # cause of rejection and he might have a gf...so I don't know..lol