Husband signed up for a dating site

[megochick101]

So my husband just received an alert on his phone that his new account at some dating site has been set up. HE is currently sleeping so I haven't said anything about it. But since I am a curious person, I checked the site out. It's not just a normal dating site such as match or e harmony, no it a SEX dating site. It a site that you can go to to find people in your area to have SEX with!!!!! I almost woke him up and started bitching at him, but I don't want him knowing that I know he has an account at this site. I did note the website name and his login info, as it was conveniently in the alert on his phone, and put that information in the notepad of my phone for future reference. But i'm not sure what i should do, should I just confront him about it, or do I wait and see if he uses the site? But then if he actually uses the site, I don't know how I'll handle that.

But on the same hand, if i confront him about this, he may just go to a different site and hide it better. So it may be better that I know. D*mn it i'm freakin PISSED!!

So confront him, or wait it out?? Any opinions out there?

[specialmom]

Acutally Plew, it would be better if you started your own thread rather than adding to a very old one.  Hit post a question to do so.  thanks!

[Plew8288]

Funny how these types of posts can keep going for years.  I just found an email in my husbands inbox of the same nature, f**kbuddy.net.  Definitely a name he would use and the same thing, giving a generic password so he could go back through the email and activate his account.  I found it quite by accident, pulled up his Chrome page instead of mine and didn't pay attention when I opened the mailbox.  I printed the email and it's in my purse.  It's 3:10 am here and he is sleeping right now, gets up at 4.  Still trying to decide how to handle it.  I was cheated on by my first hubby and we have had extensive convos about that.  I work really hard to trust him and find myself explaining away some things I feel or suspect but this one has kept me up all night.  Can't wait to hear what excuse he comes up with.

[EyesAqua]

I don't get it what happened to a man seeing another woman naked being taboo or woman saying another man naked that was to be back then what happened to that now its like its okay you can even watch him screwing each other what happened everyone's morals

[EyesAqua]

don't believe them I can't believe how common this has become in marriages I have read story after story after story that can be my story or is my story but mine is worse I guess I let mine go too long before I realize what was going on like 13 years too long now I can't trust em for nothing he put a lock on his phone like that's going to help me trust him its over between us they'll never be trust

[debdeb45]

I recently found the same thing my husband had signed up for a site called Milf  I freaked on him and you know what he tried to blame it on me he told me he has not been happy for a long time and its because he thought I was not happy such a typical response I no longer trust him and I doubt I ever will . he has not been interested in sex for a long time I usually have to initiate it  I asked him if he ever cheated and he started crying and said no still don't trust him though

[Nighthawk61]

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