My adult son, 'Jeremy' is in the Airforce, and his fiancee, 'Annie' is in the army. I am proud of them both. Annie was raised by her step-dad and mom, 'Bob' and 'Jane'. Annie's biological father 'Meanie' has been in and out of her life, making promises to Annie that he does not keep, and using her support money for himself. Jeremy asked Bob if he could marry Annie after college, and Bob said yes. Annie calls Bob 'daddy'. No one asked Meanie. So, at a large family gathering, Jeremy wore his Dress Blues, went to one knee before her and everyone, took out a black box containing a diamond ring, and asked her to be his wife. She said yes while trying to catch her breath. It was the most beautiful thing I have seen yet, and everyone was crying with joy and hugging them both. Except for Meanie. He was shocked. No one asked him, and he would have never said yes to his daughter marrying a n*****r!!! I have a black father and a white mother, so my children have coffee-and-cream colored skin. Needless to say, my 'mama-bear' came out and I said things to this man that I cannot repeat here. Meanie backed off mumbling something about 'damned n****rs'. I remain so pissed off that I want to go to his house and do something illegal. I would have done it already if I knew where the guy lived. How do I handle this anger, and the possibility of meeting him again? Meanie is a cowardly person (really) and does not like being screamed at. I AM JUST SO ANGRY. And this is new for me because it takes ALOT to **** me off. One thing is calling one of my children names like that. They once had a bus driver who was racist, and would not protect my kids from racist kids. The day I found out about it was the day the bus driver was fired, and replaced by a driver who sat my kids right behind her on the bus, where they were much less likely to be harrassed. Now I'm rambling. Got any input on this?