refuses sex, convinced I'm a cheater?

[Confusedclosure]

Since I been with my girlfriend I became a minute man. We got to know each other first before we had sex to try and create feelings not based on the sex. Unfortunately When it was finally time, I think I was over anxious and popped in 10 min. Which was rare because I usually have difficulty getting there and sometimes not at all. Yet this happened the first five times. Since then it got less and less. When I try to start she denies about80% of the time! as for 20% something always come up. At first it didn't phase me,however now we only do it when she wants it. And of course I take it. What do I need to do. Any ideas on how to save or sex life before its unsalvagable?


This discussion is related to I feel like my fiancé would rather masterbate than have sex with me.

[Londres70]

Have you talked to her about this at all?

[RockRose]

Your title has nothing to do with your post.  

The body of your post is a pretty common problem - a couple where one wants sex and the other doesn't.  In that case,  you have to decide if her other qualities outweigh the fact that she doesn't want sex and she doesn't care that you do.

Not sure what to make of your post title,  though.  Maybe more information would help?