Is she pregnant or am I overreacting?

[justsoconfused]

Ok so I was seeing this girl - well not really seeing her but having sex with her - for about a month and a half...we only had sex like 4 or 5 times over that time span...I wore a condom everytime and I actually only ejaculated one time in the condom while being in her vagina - i did wear a magnum because the regular condoms are too small - the magnum did fit snug enough around my penis but I do think it was looser then the other regular condoms...but it did fit good enough for protection I'm pretty sure...2 times I pulled out and the other 2 times I couldn't even ejaculate. She also gave me oral sex a few times...one time it looked like maybe she wiped my semen on her legs or near her vagina when I ejaculated...very sorry about the description. So, I think she's upset because it didn't go beyond sex. I don't talk to her much anymore...but she's been acting very strange. She did tell me that she had her period after the 4th time we had sex. But now she tells me she's not drinking alcohol anymore...she says she has been drinking when she shouldn't be...she says she's not drinking anymore because she's working 2 jobs and she's supporting a good friend of hers who cannot drink anymore because of legal issues. I told her that was kind of weird...I have a history of anxiety problems so of course I thought maybe she was pregnant and that's why she can't drink anymore..I asked her about it and she accused me of being crazy and calling her crazy essentially. Not to sound egotistical but I know she was obsessed with me...I'm just freaking out because I'm thinking why would she just stop drinking unless maybe she was pregnant? But I know the odds of her being pregnant are not very high considering I always wore a condom and she says she's on the pill...She did drink with everytime we hung out so I definitely know she drank with me after the first 4 times we had sex...I guess I'd like to get some opinions on whether or not anyone thinks she's pregnant or am I reading into this way too much??? Do you think she's really just NOT drinking right now because of work and stuff? Do you think she would have told me if she was pregnant with me bringing it up a few times?

[justsoconfused]

we talked via text yesterday and she says i'm overreacting and wants to move...and that if something was up she would have told me...so do I just believe her?

[imanaddict]

I think she's saying those things to mess with your head. She wants you to think she's pregnant so you'll come running back to her.

[AmbassadorofAwesome69]

Yes, you're overreacting.  Unless she pops up in the next month and says "I'm pregnant" (in which you buy a home test for her to take in front of you) then I wouldn't worry about it.  Maybe she just doesn't want to drink??

[ANewLife4Me]

No, I don't think she's pregnant either.  If she was obsessed with you and she turned up pregnant, you'd know for sure.  As to why she really quit drinking, who knows.  

[thehitman357]

Man, I have the same issue with condoms. Man, I got a really really big one.  Oh...did I tell you I have a big one. Anyways, dude she is not pregnant. You are fine. Move on and lets not get stuck on crazy.