First of all, the pull out method is NOT birth control and if that's all you're doing then you're going to end up pregnant sooner or later as will any other girls he decides to have sex with.
Secondly, he cheated on you before and that's why you broke up and now he's cheating again and she is probably pregnant. It's time to kick this loser out of your life for good because he's nothing but a player and you're only going to end up eventually being one of many baby mamas of his who he likely will not support financially and it's going to turn out really bad for you and any future kids of yours.
Third, I hope that you will take some time to be single after you break up with him and really start thinking about what kind of future you want for yourself. If you stay with him and allow this to continue, I guarantee it will turn out bad for you. That's a 100% certainty. It's time for you to take charge of your life and start making better choices for yourself and don't settle for losers like this player who is completely wrong for you and doesn't deserve any more of your time.
I think it's extremely unlikely she's pregnant - you can buy positive pregnancy tests on craigs list. If she showed him her medical form showing positive pregnancy test, with the name of the clinic on it and her name, I'd believe that.
I don't understand this loose relationship thing, and wouldn't want to trust a guy who takes breaks in a relationship so he can have meaningless sex with his friends.
If she is covering up that much and making all these excuses then she more than likely isnt pregnant! Because if she was I know if it was me I would want to prove myself withiout the shadow of a doubt. Especially for her not to let him go to a Dr apt with her, whats to hide?!? Lol I tink you guys are good and if she does by chance pop up with a baby in the future tell you BF to be sure to get a paternity test. Good luck
I don't do the "go on a break" thing, for this very reason. It wouldn't be acceptable for me to have my man keeping "friends with benefits" friends on the side lines, and pouncing on them whenever he decided to take a break. You take a break at lunch time, not while in a solid long term relationship. How serious is this "relationship" if one must take a break from it? I think if you talked about why you took a break in the first place (or how many breaks you've taken) you'd be focusing on the matters you should. As far as this girl maybe making up a pregnancy to have him, that's what happens when you use a girl for sex when you take a break from your spouse. Both women are getting the short end of the stick. I'd be reevaluating whether this is something you want to continue to have happen, the breaks i mean. If not, in the words of Bob Marley, " not living good, travel wide".
1. I agree with Nighthawk, the guy is not worth your time.
2. She is probably not pregnant. This has nothing to do with #1 above, though, he is not worth your time whether or not she is pregnant.