i totally agree with kevin, he is a bit controlling and very immature!! i think you would be well out of it, or at least you carry on seeing your friends! best wishes,
Well i think this guy is being very inmature about the whole thing and if you are having problems this early on in this relationship its best you get out of it soon. He sounds like a very jealous and insecure person and you dont need to put up with it you and i know you deserve better. If he cant trust you with hanging out with gay friends that you have know way before him then he needs to grow up and you need to move on because trust me it is only going to get worse.
But, correct me if I'm wrong, he was fine with this before right? As you said you've been hanging out with them, he KNOWS them and has even hung out with them before. That's why I think it's just a ploy to push you away so he can do whatever he wants, if it's seeing another woman, or using without someone to tell him no. You know?
Regardless of his motives, always remember to treat others the way you want to be treated. In other words, reverse the situation and imagine how you would feel if he hung out with beautiful women, gay or not. Im not saying its wrong, just saying if its good for the goose itse good for the gander. Secondly, or maybe this should have been my first one. Change for no one!!!! NO ONE!!! I firmly believe that if you have to go changing who yu are or what you do, or believe in, because of someone elses issues, they simply are not compatible with you in the first place. If the man does not trust you, he doesnt trust you, period.
I would have to agree with RockRose as well. Especially the fact that he doesn't want you to stop talking to them, he wants you to keep doing what you are doing so he has a reason to do what he wants to do. And it might not even be just that either. It is wrong for him to do this, but it's his way of trying to get out when you've done nothing wrong. The next thing to happen is for y'all to start fighting and then everything blow up and he leave because of that. It might also be his way of pushing you away so he can still use. My husband always used to do things that made me mad when I was trying to help him, pushing me farther and farther away. You can't really be sure, but I bet it's got something to do with that.
He wants to date other women, and he's using this as leverage.
My guess is you'll say no, that's not it at all. But I've seen this before, and I still say yes it is. ;D Men who start saying well okay then I can go date other women, are looking for permission to do that. If he doesn't get the permission, he'll do it anyway.