Jealous crazy lady

[AbigailAngel]

Well I have a bf of 4 years. I have a guy best friend who has been my friend for 7 years i once dated this person but I was only 13 so not really considered as dating. He was for a period of time not a part of my life because his gf did not want him to talk to guirls. This summer he reentered my life and our friendship blossomed once again. Then he began flirting with me. i thought it was harmless and that he was kidding so I just told him to stop and he knew about my bf the whole time. Then it kept going on but I fooled myself into thinking we were just friends. During the summer I went through hardships with my bf and was thinking of leaving him but not to be with this friend. the relationship with my boyfriend has gotten better and my best friend now has a gf but their relationship has been rocky I am not sure why cuz I can not be sure hes telling me the truth about y its so rocky. Anyways lately she's been sending me messages saying im flirting with him which is in fact not true. I did a little this summer but nothing major but have not in 2 months. She has started messaging me telling me we were flirting with eachother and w.e but I was not he was and Id tell him to stop. She keeps messaging me Ive told her that there nothing I dont talk to him anymore and I dont want him and how i encouraged him to date her. She keeps on sending me lsgs saying shes pregnant and that she left him or w.e yet she txted me on his phone to tell me that..HELP ME? I dont wanna talk to her because I dont want to make things worst but im really pissed off and I just want her to leave me alone Ive cut all ties with him but shes still bugging me WHAT DO I DO?

[Judy246]

also, if you want feel free to contact me via private message anytime you want...Judy

[Judy246]

She is insignificant to your relationship. Just make sure to put it on him to take care of this problem and if it continues, record the messages and threaten to report her to the police for harrasment. Hugs, Judy

[AbigailAngel]

I just dont want her to come and ruin my relationship

[AbigailAngel]

I get that I am usually like that also hehe but yeah I dont think he knows she is doing this she did it once and i told him and I dunno what he did about it but yeah he knows how she is i guess

[Judy246]

She's texting from his cell and he doesn't object or catch it?  She is just jelous and threatened by you, take it as a compliment :)  BUT, if it continues, tell him to take care of it. Good luck (sorry about the lunch invite...I like to have my enemies close by :)

[AbigailAngel]

thing is I do know her from school so I think the lunch thing is out haha but i will try to ignore her for now and if it becomes a problem I will get the # blocked because I deleted the # out of my phone by the way shes txt's me for his cell when and she claims she dumped him cuz of me so yeah wierd so I will see how it goes

[Judy246]

You have many options, I agree with mego that one possibility is to block her number and change your e-mail information if necessary and if all else fails, tell the "friend" to control his girl. Put the burden of control on him. Tell him she is sending inapproriate messages and you want them to stop.

Another option and I'm just going to throw this out there....maybe you might want to invite her to lunch, so that you can get to know each other and who knows, maybe you might have more in common than what you think and possibly earned a friend (just a thought :)....Good luck!  Judy

[mami1323]

You can block her number or change your number.  If she's really bothering you than tell her that if she keeps texting you, you will report her to the police for harassment.  That's it.  Nothing more you can do.

[megochick101]

Block her number. Simple as that. You may have to call you're cell phone company, but you CAN block her number from calling you, and i think if she tries to call you she'll get the "disconnect message" I KNOW you can block her from calling you, I am just not sure if that will also apply to text messages or just for calls. But call your phone company and tehy should be able to help.

Then she won't be bothering you anymore :)