It's a very tough situation to be in when the person you love doesn't want to get help. They have to WANT to get help and let you help them. I'm sorry that you're going through this. All you can do is have another serious talk with him and ask him to get help; explain the effects in has on you, emotionally. Tell him you want to be with him, but you can't live this way forever so he needs to get help in order for things to work. Don't be afraid to leave if it really makes you miserable and you see no hope. It takes two to work things out and the one who needs to make the first move in this case should be him by getting help. Good luck, honey.
well I was trying to be anonymous in case my husband checked the site (he's notice I've been on here a lot) but I accidentally replied to you under the wrong name...so now the secret is out haha
yeah I realized I worded that badly when you asked. He has claimed depression before, but he refuses to go to the dr. I had surgery in the summer and things have been bad trying to catch up from that money wise, so maybe that's it
I'm sorry, tygre, I took your statement "we've been together a little over a year" to mean you've only known him a year. Is it possible he's depressed?
we have known each other for 6 years, we have been together almost 3 years and married a little over 1...and we are holding off on kids...trust me
How long did you know him before you married him, Tygre? It's not hard for a man to be something he isn't for a few months - and then his real self comes through.
I think you need to at least not have any babies until this works out, if it ever does.