So, what have you decided to do? Are you going to find a new dentist or what? If he makes though uncomfortable with his behavior them there is a huge problem, the only solution being that you find a new dentist. There is really no reason to question whether this is normal or not because the fact is that your feelings are that you feel he makes you uncomfortable and that's a good enough and during enough reason to leave.
So I really hope you have not gone back to see him again since the first time you posted your question here.
I think it's unprofessional for a professional to comment on your looks. If a professional comments on your looks favourably, to me, it's just as bad as if he comments on your looks unfavourably. This would be the first red flag, suggesting that somehow "pretty" is better than what ? "plain" Just another idiot that looks skin deep and makes assumptions that a person will be flattered with the attention, instead of looking at the bigger picture and realizing that if he thinks "pretty" is special, then he thinks' that "plain" is not optimal in his eyes. It is unprofessional for anybody to judge a women by her looks, It's cheesy and inappropriate in my opinion, especially for a professional. If the only thing a guy could say about me, was that i was "pretty" i would find that insulting, but i would also judge the guy as being shallow.. Beauty is only skin deep, and what we look like, we really have nothing to do with. And when we get old, we all fade and get wrinkles. If he were to ask you about your hobbies and interests, and commented on that, , i think that would be alright., but not what you had nothing to do with (your looks).
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Sounds to me like hes flirting but if u want him go for it but idk if that be such a good idea have ur mom in the room with u
Tell your mom what he's doing. She'll flip. This will be taken care of. It's important for a young woman to learn to stand up for herself or you'll end up being a victim here and elsewhere. This is why people like the dentist continue their actions. They somehow sense the ones who will put up with it (you) who give themselves lots of excuses for why they don't take action to make it stop --- and they do what they do which is inappropriate. Lots of young ladies would make a stink about it but you don't. Why is that? Do you like the attention in some kind of way? Otherwise, tell your mom or say STOP or I'll tell my mom. This is not a complex situation. good luck
Please get this straight. You did nothing wrong, you did not make a mistake. He is a professional, he is in no confusion about what a professional relationship is. He certainly does not do this to men, for example. He knows the difference between correct professional behavior and incorrect behavior.
You have every right to expect any person with whom you have professional dealings to act like a professional. You say you cannot change dentists (what if he were to move away or die? Would you not be able to find a new dentist?) and you imply that you are somehow to blame for not having taken it on yourself to stop him. You should not have had to. He is being inappropriate and even predatory, This is NOT YOUR FAULT.
If you cannot find the nerve to report his behavior or feel you simply won't be believed, change dentists. If you so-called "cannot" do that, have your mother be in the room at all times. If he asks why, say you are uncomfortable with his demeanor. You do not even owe him that much explanation.
What a pig. Have your mother be in the room the whole time. If he will not allow it, change dentists. You do not have to put up with this! In this country he would be reported to the board that addresses licensing of dentists and might lose his license over such things.