5 years ago, I met this girl, let's call her Lo. We started as friends with benefits. I was still in college and messing around with other girls, and who know what she was doing. Anyways, 7 months into i confess, and she confesses to doing things (which made me feel better since I wasn't the only one) , then we decided to stop messing around with other people. Well, we started a relationship then realized a year later that we were not ready. So we stopped talking for about a over 5 months then I run into her at a movie theater. We talk, hang out, and decide to see each other again. A couple weeks later we are back together. We both didn't want to think about the future so we just had fun, unfortunately we made the 'mistake' of talking to each other every day and seeing each other multiple times a week. Well, a little over a year later my life takes me in a different direction and I have to move away. We are both sad, but hey, it happens. We don't speak initially, but then she makes plans to visit. SHe visits me, two months later I visit her, then we start takling about her moving in with me (note this is clear across the country, oregon and ohio) so it's kind of a big move for her). This was exactly one year ago.
The year together has been great, aside from a few ups and downs. I have been pretty good about saving money, however she is one of those 'spends all her money lives paycheck to paycheck' kind of people.
So finally here is the current situation. She misses her family, I'm not moving back, but we are kinda trapped. She doesn't have enough money to move away anytime soon, and I our lease is up next month. I love her, she says she loves me, but it doesn't seem like we can work. She wants me to stay with her until she has enough money to move back. She claims her family doesn't have the funds to assist her. Should I stay with her (let her use me) until she is able to move back? Is it a **** move to go on with my life and let her deal with her own problems?
We could probably stay in our current place, but the next place I get is going to be with some friends and they are planning on finding a place next month. I can't afford to pay double rent. What do I do?