One night stand does he or doesnt be involed?

[Bella84_knox]

I havent gotten my period so i call this dude up to commuicate with him on situation! So he like i kind figure that why you are call me which id thought was werid. So he real cool about it tell me whatever you wanna do he was going to do. I start ask questions because we had sex when we were drunk. So he knows he had unprotect sex with me not knowing if i could have kids. Im like wtf u dont do that to no one.... Anyhow i text him the next day say hey im go to doctor at this day and time the doctor name he doesnt respond so i go doctor and im pregnant so i call him see if we can meet up he say yes. So we meet i tell him he sat there quite for almost hour so within this hour i ask him about his family history? Who he is because this one night stand i ask him if he has any questions or concerns. He say no. He want be involved he ask me what i wanna do. I told him im keep baby. So he say ok i suggested we hang out as friends try get to know each other he say ok... So im thinking we agreement. Well he text me later that night ask me for paper work ! Im like wtf bc you had two hrs to tell me that! So im think ppl put stuff in head. So once again i offer him go doctor appt with me and if he want to we can go clinci together show proof im pregnant so he say tomorrow im like ok just tell me time. Next day i call find out time! Once again he doesnt respond to my text or calls....so i explain by text if he couldnt commicate with me that this wasnt going to work because im try show him proof i told him like i can raise this baby on my own and that i didnt want no money frm him , i would just commicate with him about pregnancy once again no respond like 1 1/2 hr later i get text say sorry he had go work early can we meet on monday? I reply yes or suggested if he would like go with me next appt sp that way he can see baby songram and talk to doctor???? Guesss what i get no respond im like stress out to me it seem like he doesnt want to be involed or try get any proof  

[yorocco]

My advice. You're not doing the baby any favors by not going after him for child support. File a paternity suit against him and leave it at that. If he wants to get involved find out about his background beforehand because it sounds like this guy was a total stranger to you.

[specialmom]

Hopefully he will come through and be daddy to the baby.  You know?  Like every kid wants a dad.  I would keep communication open but loose.  And take every opportunity to have him bond with his child once here.  And this is just me, but unless you don't mind or are independently wealthy or something, he should pay for his kid.  I know that can make things a little less cordial but it is his duty.  

How are you doing in the pregnancy, by the way?

[GuitarRox]

agree

[42yrsprego]

You can't force the issue, I personally would look at raising the baby on your own, he may just need time to come around, I would continue as if he is not in the picture if he comes back it's a bonus good luck