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Oral Sex Help

Ok... I have no idea why I am so embarrassed to ask this but I need some input here.  One thing DH would like that I have never done is letting him orgasm in my mouth.  Oral sex is not an issue- the taste and letting him do that is.  Well, issue is the wrong word.  Anyway, I was wondering if anyone had any tips on doing this without making him think that he is revolting?  I am afraid that I will like gag and throw up- which would totally kill the mood and any enjoyment I think, and while I have considered just keeping the lights off so he wouldn't see, I was hoping for some more ideas if there are any.  There is a special occassion coming up that I would like to do this for, and while he says he is happy with me not doing that, I would like to.  

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WHEN I WAS YOUNGER I THOUGHT I WOULD NEVER  EVER DO IT,BUT I HONESTLY DO ENJOYED GIVING MY MAN BLOW JOB,I LOVE TASTING HIS COME ,IT'S TURN ME ON,YOY HAVE HAVE SHALLOW IT,HE CAN COME ON *****,YOUR ****,BELLY AND ETC.I ALWAYS THAT IT WOULD BE NASTY,BUT NOW I LOVE IT !!!!
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I appreciate the feedback.  I guess I'll think more about it, because I have tasted it before and.... well that's what makes me worry I'll gag, because my husband doesn't eat fruit either.  Anyway, thanks!
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If you honestly dont think you can do it, then really I wouldn't do it or maybe just try it for alittle bit and see how it goes. When I do it for my boyfriend, its always a different expierence. Sometimes I gag, sometimes I almost throw up, and other times I have no problem with it. The taste well....I'm not going to lie and tell you it's the yummiest, because well....it's NOT. But the taste really depends on your husbands diet. For example, you say you would like to do this for speacial occasion coming up, tell your husband to eat lots of fruit like mangos and pinapples because the fruit makes the ejaculation taste alot sweeter and it's alot more easy to have in your mouth and/or swallow it (depending on if your going to swallow it or not) I tell my boyfriend all the time, that if he wants me to do it for him he needs to eat more fruit (it's also a good way to make him start eating friut, because my boyfriend hardley eats it) and when he does I can normally handle it alot better without gagging (and I have a VERY strong gag reflex, I can gag at almost anything...lol). So good luck with this, if your going to do it just do it and be happy with what your doing, if not I'm sure your husband will be fine without it.

Niki~~
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If it would bother you, i would say dont do it, because he would know that you dont enjoy it, also if you dont start something, you dont have to stop it,,  luck  jo
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I appreciate your response - I got your message and wrote back.  Yes, being anonymous gives this forum its appeal  :)  Thanks!
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I started typing a reply here but decided to send you a private message about it instead.  I appreciate your bringing this up despite being embarrassed about it.  Thankfully this is all anonymous!
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