Oral question in a soon to be relationship.

[Grieco01]

Ok well I may get into a relationship with in the year with someone close.

She loves getting oral and I wouldn't mind going down on her but question is, Is it safe to use my tounge or hands when stimulating her with out any means of oral protections?

Im also wonder not to say I will but would I get ill at all or get somekind of disease for swallowing any of her femmie wetness or female *** (whatever its called) by accident?

And Finally If I were to have sex with my love one since Im a virgin should I get tested before any activities just incase? even with the condom? & Ohay I hope my teeth are fixed by then but I have a good case of Gum disease If I kiss her frenching wise could she become sick? an would that go for the same if I were to give her oral. Just want to be on the safe side. Thanks

[ticked]

I cant believe these are real questions.  Just when you have thought that you have heard it all!!!!

[Grieco01]

what?? ahahahha...

I dout I get married - I use that alot to wave off my exes cause they used me mentally. don't need that -

I know I have an ex that uses these forums so Im careful but now that I said it I really don't care.

I was just asking the safety of oral an kissing with bad gums..

I know how to do oral/sex and kissing what to do an not to do while with a partner.

Thanks for the advice though..

[Grieco01]

Oh no.. She not a virgin lol I'am, Im not sure about sex yet thinking about after marriage im 20 btw.

I realize the basics on safe sex - But I may get tested just to be on the safe side.

Not sure if she has anything - haven't asked lately been caught up in a deadline (autodesigner side business).

anyways - I trust her alot I dout I ever use the dental dam but it is a opition incase I find she may have something or myself.

Thanks for the advice though.. though no one would ever reply to this one lol.

[jenniferolivebridge]

since you seem to be very cautious about this, it might be a good idea to just get tested before you engage in any oral with her and then when tests come back clean (since it sounds like you are both virgins you most likely dont have anything) go about giving her oral without the use of a damn (like the above posted said, its not really the most convenient or nicest thing to use for this type of activity).

kudos to you for being so cautious, but you may be overthinking this a bit. especially if you are both virgins, just use condoms for intercourse and try to relax.

[RockRose]

Grieco - you're a bit of a planner,  I think.  You haven't even kissed this girl yet,  but somehow she's told you she likes oral sex and maybe you'll get in a relationship with her and if you do you might marry her soon and your question is do you need a dental dam for after you're married.  

You're young.  You need more experience in life and relationships and dating than this,  I think.   You need several romantic relationships over the years before you find the one that's the best match.

Best wishes - I never knew guys could be such worrywarts until this forum.  ;D   I always thought women over-thought things,  but I really am shocked at the complex,  multi-layered anxieties a lot of guys have.  I hope you are able to put some of that aside and enjoy your relationships.

[lhowell]

Yeah...sorry, but it sounds like you shouldn't engage in any of it.  If some guy was going to use a dental dam on me, I'd kick him to the curb.  

[Grieco01]

Solved I look it up online.. Just use a dental dam for oral an ne one can catch Gum Disease from Kissing or anywhere the gums touch..

Eh thanks anyways..