Trouble Moving On

[Glowingstar]

Right this is the low down, me and my girlfriend have split for just over a week now and i feel that im over her, but every now and again i think about the way she looked how pretty was etc and it all comes crashing back to me, i dont feel like i love her or anything anymore, but i get scared that il see her with someone else, coz i know that would drive me back to the depression forum lol i jus need a few pointers on what to do, is it normal for me to be acting like this

Glow

[mami1323]

You're going to constantly go through ups and downs.  That's part of the process of moving on.  You do sound a 1000 times better.  Just keep yourself preoccupied like the other posters said.  Don't think about what it's going to be like if you see her with someone else.  It's going to drive you nuts.  Worry about it if and when the day comes.  Maybe by the time you do see her you will be completely over her and you won't even care.  Good luck.

[Glowingstar]

thank you, it felt like i was the only one who felt like it, im feeling really low at the min lol thank you all

Glow

[AnxiousGurl]

First of all, I think its totally normal to be feeling the way you do.. considering its only a little over a week. I reminise about the past and all the good times all the time and yea its sad to think about how those people arent apart of my life anymore..but thats just the way life goes. Just make sure you do what makes yourself happy....keep yourself busy..call up some friends go out meet new people its the best way to move on...dont let this keep you down. Smile!!!!!

[Agiesmom]

Yes, it's normal.  You sound better than you did last week when you posted.  Keep yourself busy while time passes.  Time is the only thing that will help you get over it completely.