So I wrote yesterday about that guys who's been talking to me. My neighbors friend, Bryan. While I was getting ready to go to the concert yesterday, we were messaging, just IMing. So I'm doing my hair, doing my make up, checking my computer every so often. And we started off with those normal cute messages. "I miss you", "How are you?", that kind of things. We're just talking...
Then around 4:30 I was like "Just so you know, I have a concert tonight so I have to get off the computer at like 6pm". And he sends me "Aww, :( so you're going to leave me all alone?" writted just like that. I told him yeah, sorry, and then the conversation just went on like normal. At one point we were talking about exams, and how I was pretty sure I was going to fail chemistry, and then he said he was going to fail physics. I said something like "We're great at passing classes--let's sit here and talk to each other even though we both know we're failing science. Hahhaa we're losers:" There was a lull in the convesation so I go up to finish my hair, and when I come back there's another message.
He sends me, "You're probably going to think I'm crazy, but what would you do if I asked you to be my girl?"
Now, this boy already calls me "baby". I've been calling him "boo" cuz that's what I do... And now I'm sitting here, staring at the computer like "OHMYGODOHMYGOD". I literally hyperventilated for like five minutes, and I sat there over the keyboard with my hands shaking. And so I thought about it for a little bit...
And I said yes. Actually, my literal response was "Uh, YES! Are you serious? Like, FOR REAL serious?"
I'm looking back on it, not thinking that it was a bad decision, but like... Oh my gosh. I'm still in shock, I guess. I don't... I don't have boyfriends. Like ever. Guys don't like me. And now out of the clear blue, it's like, POOF. Here's this dude I like who likes me back and said he wants to go out with me and like... Oh God.
The message he sent me after was so cute, though. He goes, "Oh, that's such a relief, I thought you were gonna say no. You don't know how happy you make me. Well, I know you have to get going so have fun at your concert, go out there and kill it, and I'll talk to you tomorrow."
I went to the concert all happy and smiley. I was running up to everyone like "Guess what! I'm not single anymore!" I was freaking out. The only problem I have now is... My parents. I mean, if they find out that I'm dating an 18-year-old (almost 19) at only 17 years old, they're going to kill me. I mean, shoot me in the face and then bury me in the backyard, then discard of all evidence that I ever existed. That kind of "kill me". I'm not 17 for a couple weeks yet... Eep. So my plan (and I told Bryan this, too) is to not let them know right now.
I don't want to lie to them, but I know they'll tell me I can never talk to him again if they find out we're (technically) together right now. They're so weird about age stuff. My whole family is. Part of it is because my grandma on my dad's side go pregnant with her first child, my uncle Joe, when she was 14 and had to marry her then-boyfriend (one of my grandpa's and my dad's biological father, my grandpa Joe, ironically) at a courthouse. They're trying to avoid that happening. There has been four teen pregnancies in my family so far amoungst my cousins. Once, my cousin Nikki brought home a boy who was 18 when she was 16. They went to school together. Everyone freaked out. I don't like it that much... I mean, here's innocent little me who doesn't date at all, rarely ever likes boys, and now I wanna date this guy I've known for like 5 years, and we've been talking again for months, but no one is going to approve because he's almost 19 and I'm almost 17.
Grr.
I really sound like an "angsty teenager" right now, I know. I don't like sounding this immature, it bothers me, but I need to get this out there because I have no one else to turn to for honest advice. All my friends just keep going "awww thats so cute!" and they won't help me. I've only told select people, and I'm waiting to tell my friend Dez, because she's in a similar situation. Her boyfriend and her used to work together, before he got promoted to a different place. She's 17, he's just turned 20, but he literally graduated when we were in our Sophomore year, so they could have been dating then if she'd known who he was. But she can't tell her parents because of a similar situation, being that they don't approve of dating people over the age of 18. I just don't know how to tell her, since Bryan lives so far aweay...
Just thought I would let everyone know whats going on. Please respond with feedback.