So, Im a 31 year old man who's been married for almost 3 years, to a wonderful lady, my wife, who is 25. In the past year or so, my wife has really been stepping up the pressure on me for us to start a family and for her to start having children, I had some reservations and might prefer to wait just another year or two before starting.
My wife and I have always talked about having children after we got married, and we would typically talk about having kids in the range of "3 to 5 years" after getting married. Also, my wife has always wanted to be a stay at home mom, which I think is great, and she has always planned to quit her job shortly after becoming pregnant with us planning on living only on 1 income (mine) with me working fulltime. I try to be diligent about the family budget and generally speaking, in order for me to be able to financially facilliate supporting our family on just my income, I need to continue to focus on paying off our few remaining credit cards, student loans and one of our cars.
Is it wrong for me to want to wait longer before starting to have children, so that we can pay off a few more debts and my wife can afford to stay home with the children, like she has always wanted?