I have been in a relationship for 7 1/2 years now... for the first few years we had sex almost every day and then it slowly died down to almost never. I know that things don't stay exciting forever but i feel like porn is almost entirely to blame. I used to catch him by looking at the browser history but now he has figured out how to delete it, and our sex life has gotten even worse. He looks at porn every chance he gets, almost every time i leave the house. Sometimes i get up in the middle of the night, or come back home after 5 minutes just to see what he's doing and it never fails... he's looking at porn. it makes me feel so terrible about myself. I've got him to admit in the past that he had a problem, but now he refuses to discuss it with me. I've wrote him notes and everything to try and get a response, telling him how bad this makes me feel. I've always been a big girl but since he stopped touching me, i have lost 40 pounds and look better than i ever did. I am a very sexual person and this just breaks my heart. I have to tried EVERYTHING to spice up our love life, but he would rather look at porn every time... and when i do get him in the bedroom.... he can't make it happen if you know what i mean. I'm just really upset about all this and haven't had any action in months. He says all i care about is sex but we only have sex every few months now and it drives me crazy!!! I feel like i might end up cheating soon or something. What am i doing wrong? what should i do? Should i leave someone who says they love me, just because of a porn addiction?