Hi Juss1689. Welcome to the forum. You've placed your question on an older thread--- you may have a better discussion about your own situation if you start your own thread. Hope it all works out!
My man is the same. Cept i have not pried foran answer to why i cant see his room. I feel a lil discouraged in weather i should tryst him but i also KNOW he would Never intentionally hurt me. I was told its not a sexual reason. So im curious as hell but i care about him and dont want him uncomfortable. Im keeping the hope maybe someday he will open that last door to his life for me, if not then it must be a pretty good secret and i might just take my leave at some point. I dont want him to not fully tryst me anything and everything as he should. Time will tell..
I agree with RockRose. That is exactly how I read it. Respect the mans right to privacy.! Why would you NEED to go into his room anyway?
His room is probably a "dump" and he's embrassed; and, he doesn't feel like cleaning it up.
lyssi, your post is very cryptic. How old are you?
Is he a child? Maybe his parents don't allow girls in his room and he's embarrassed to tell you that and so he pretends he doesn't want you there.
When you say you aren't invited to his "room", you are clearly not an adult couple with adult options.
I think he might just be shy about it or likes some kind of privacy. When I was younger, my room wasn't the cleanest room around, LOL and I wouldn't like my friends in there either. Talk to him some more about it and tell him your concerns that he might be hiding something. Maybe his parents don't allow girls in there and he's too shy to say it.
yeah i have asked him and he said i dont know i just don't like girls in my room.
That's a tough one. It could be that he's just shy about his room. Maybe it's not tidy enough and he's embarrassed. It's hard to say if he's hiding something or not, but you know him better and of course it depends on how much you trust him. Have you asked him why it is that he doesn't like people in there?