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anal stimulation and men

So I'm curious. My husband and I have a pretty healthy sex life. I'm up for trying new things, and so is he to a certain extent. I was wondering...are there any men (straight men) who enjoy any kind of anal stimulation? Women- do any of your partners enjoy this? I just know there is a prostate gland and all that, I'm just wondering if anyone has experienced this or performed any kind of pleasure this way for their man. Thanks!
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My man loves it... most previous boyfriends ive had were too uncomfortable to even consider it. By the look my bf has when hes coming though makes me think it is their loss
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Hi ladies. I’m a straight man, and I love it. I used to have a g/f that would stick her finger up there while giving me head. The orgasim achieved is intensified 10fold! Unfortunately for me, my wife won’t go near that either. We’ve had the conversation in the past, but it just makes me feel gay talking about it. I just don’t bring it up anymore. For you freakier girls that really want to blow your mans mind. You should lick his *** while jerking him off! There is nothing like it! I really miss that old girlfriend! Lol
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337492 tn?1212458836
My Freaky Dinky Self is here SugaPea!!!  This is a personal one and a certain fellow (who shall remain nameless) LOVES IT.  He would die if anyone knew.  Ladies, you do not have to use your fingers, GROSS... that is why toys were invented *wink*  Well time for play time with my man, lata!!  :0)
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I've tried and my man won't let me any where near it which drives me nuts it makes me want to do it even more.
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LOL..  And I can't even convince myself to get a prostate exam!
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372760 tn?1201475897
You know what would be a great idea to bring it up to him?? Just bring it up as a joke.. thats how we started off...
think about it though, they always want to to stick their ding a ling in there, why cant we try a finger..? Riight?
If you want to try it, then he should be at least open enough to listen to your conversation right?
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264156 tn?1206986994
lol about gloves. Yeah I have yet to test those waters. If men enjoy it though, I'd be willing to give it a go. Come on Crystlas, where is your freaky deaky self at???? lol
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377600 tn?1225163436
I've read about it.  I've thought about trying it once on him, but I just can't bring myself to touch the poopie region.  I just can't.  Maybe with some gloves or something...
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hey thanks so much for your comment! I'm hoping more people open up and share their experience. I can tell he likes it when I spread his but cheeks as well. Also while going down on him I've ventured near with a finger but have never actually gone in. You would think I could just open up and ask him what he thinks...I guess I just want others opinions first. I'm actually a regular poster on this forum...I changed my screename to be anonymous. ;)
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372760 tn?1201475897
To be honest? I have heard of men liking this.... but my boyfriend is much against that.. once i tried to get my finger near his butt and let him know I would put in just the tip..when i was giving him oral sex.. he agreed, and then screamed like a little girl being kidnapped..got up and was turned off the rest of the night... so.... I guess my post probably didnt help... but.. he sure didnt like it...  
he does like his butt cheeks spread when he's on top of me and were having sex tho...  ?? Does that count??

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