boyfriend is addicted to porn and sex and sex dating sites

[flchic81]

my bf just recently left me and are two kids due to his addictions spending all of are money on these sex dating sites sometimes we would go hungry because he would claim he had no money I just recently found several accounts of his him leaving us has damaged me and our kids and it doesn't even bother him

[specialmom]

I am really sorry!  Do you have a supportive family or somewhere to go?  Addiction is difficult.  He may care more than you realize because the nature of addiction is that he is ill.  They 'can't' stop until they address the addiction.  Your leaving may be his wake up call.  I don't think you need to be with anyone who has been having sex outside your marriage but your kids will need to have a relationship with him and be with him so hopefully he will get some help.  

We're here to support you and again, sorry you are going through this!  hugs

[AnnieBrooke]

Sweetheart, it is time to find a good and really mean lawyer. Call your local legal services clinic if you don't have any money. To find a legal services clinic, contact the nearest law school or look in the yellow pages. You can worry about the psychology of having been betrayed and how bad it feels later, right now it is time to nail his behind to the wall.

[AnnieBrooke]

ps -- When you talk to the lawyer, be sure to explain that his spending money on illicit sites caused you and the kids to go hungry. No judge will let that go by.