communication

[candy199]

i know communication is of utmost importance during sexual intercourse, but at times you just run out of things to say and just want to enjoy the session without talking.i know this is silly but do you guys have any suggestions on how to keep talking and turning ur partner crazy....

[PromisedLand]

Phew....I thought you meant he was talking about working on the car or "gotta fix that
garage door" or something like that..I enjoy talking to my wife during sex on occasion but most of the time would rather just shut up and enjoy it..

I've never been too much into "dirty talk"   (thinks of old Seinfeld show "I was just trying to keep up!") but then I don't talk about working on the car either.


Jim

[candy199]

thanx guys...hahaha have tried telling him that but he kinda enjoys the talking about the session during the session....beats me....its so cullllllllll wen u just engage in it and really be taken by it not continuously commenting on it while at at...

[megochick101]

Communication in a relationship is for before and after sex.. Why not just tell him to hush and enjoy like Judy said? There's nothing wrong with just going at it, you don't have to talk about everything you are doing or want to do, just do it.

If he needs the talking during sex to be satisfied then there is something off with him.

[Judy246]

I have a degree in communications and during intimacy, the only conversation is of pleasure and not other distractive topic. When someone talks too much during intimacy it is a sign of nervousness and insecurity, so, be blunt and tell your partner to "shut up and enjoy!" :)