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[sheena007]

hi im 21 years old i have a boyfriend same age with me..he told me few months before that his mom is pregnant and he feels so happy about it..but i feel so shamed and because of this we are havin fight realy feel so depressed anyone plz help!!

[specialmom]

I find relationships in which someone is ashamed of their partner or their family to be short lived.  It cracks the foundation and maybe that is why you two are fighting.

You don't have to explain why you are ashamed or get over it.  But it will kill your relationship.  

I personally would think a guy who got excited about a new baby in the family was a catch.  Maybe I'm weird.  

good luck and maybe some more explanation would help us better give advice.  

[TTinKKerBBell]

OMGolly, I so don't get this.
This is His Mother's business, certainly not Yours and not really even His!!

If You're  so shamed and depressed cuz His Mother is pregnant then You should find YourSelf a BoyFriend whose Mother CANNOT get pregnant (make sure You're upfront about this - don't surprise a BoyFriend with this revelation after the fact - it might matter to Him. He should have the opportunity to decide if He would want this reaction in a GirlFriend!!)

and Your BoyFriend should find HimSelf a GirlFriend who wouldn't react in a  bizarre manner if His Mother gets pregnant - His Mother's pregnancy is TOTALLY out of His control and even His business.

You're probably fighting because He doesn't understand Your reaction and You want Him to see it the way You do - He doesn't, neither do I.

[AnnieBrooke]

It is hard to understand from the way you explain it in your post why you feel "shamed."  

Are you feeling badly because your boyfriend is happy he is going to have a brother or sister?

[sheena007]

plz help what should i do but i love him alot:(