ex gf is she tellin truth about pregnancy

[worried91422]

my ex gf four weeks ago sed she was late by week and a half after we had sex and she took the morning afterpill so had to do pregnancy tests, she then had a mssive go at me (this was a tuesday)and sayin she was gonna do a test in two days then at the weekend and the sed she was doing it on the wedsnesday. she then sed that she got a postive and a negative. i have no proof just her word. she then kept sayin somethings wrong. she then went doctors i had to wait in waiting room she then sed there was alot of heavy bleeding so doctor sed she shud do sample and bring it back. she then went to a hospital with the bleeding and they sed to her if she is preganat shes probably had a miscarriage again only her word. did the test on thursday she got the result on monday so she sed and told me on tuesday wasnt pregnant. the sunday folllowing she told me to get tested and then monday was saying she werent gonna be around much longer cause shes got abnormal cells (knew about abnormal cells just before she sed she was late) then she twisted bak to sayin im going get rid not gonna ruin ur life i asked wat she meant she wouldnt say two days later on the wednesday she sed she came off pill early and hadnt come on so had to do two more tests she then sed she wud get results on the friday. she sed that she had to go hospital on sat so probs wasnt pregnant. then on monday text me syain she had bad news. asked her wat it was and she didnt reply. then on tuesday she sed she was stressing and cud i come get the result with her i sed which one abnormal cells or pregnancy she sed pregannacy abnormal cells isnt for a couple of weeks.she then sed she wud get results friday and made an appointment for 10 20 she then sed it changed to 9 50 i hadnt replied cause she sed i cudnt come in with her cause she had to talk about other stuff. i sed will go out after the results she sed goin in on my own. turned up at doctors 9 30 on friday nomsign of her so waited got to 1020 and she drove past doctors and stopped halfway down road and rang me she sed wat u doin i sed waiting for u and she sed she had bin cause i hadnt replied i then sed i had been here since 930 and she sed she had an appointment at nine. she then sed im not pregnant was the result so i walked off she text me 10 mins later sayin i lied so i sed so ur pregnant then and she sed how do i know wat i say ur not gonna tell anyone. i sed i wont i promise and she kicked off syain i didnt belive she had an appointment and stuff so i had sed are u pregnant yes or no she sed wat differnce does it make so i asked her again are u pregnant yes or no and a hour and half later she sed its not nice knowing the truth is it, just leave it and leave me alone uve already done nough damage to me and soon i will be rid. the thing is shes been out drinking every weekend

[RockRose]

worried,  if you look through these forums you really would be surprised how often this exact story comes up - an ex girlfriend gets mad and continues to taunt the guy with the idea that she might be pregnant.

Live and learn -

[specialmom]

Well, worried.   I appreciate that you are trying to find out the truth.  Who knows exactly what is going on.  If you have unprotected sex, there is always a risk of pregnancy (and STD's--------------  Wear Protection!!) and she could be.  

But she is saying that she doesn't want you involved or to talk about it or for you to have a definate answer.  She's either losing it emotionally over it all or playing a game or confused.  So, I'd just tell her that if she is pregnant, you'd like to know sooner rather than later.  She knows how to contact you.  Then wish her luck and move on.  If she calls with all of this confusing mumbo jumbo----------  you go yourself to a drug store and buy a pregnancy test and bring it to her.  Tell her to take it.  By now she would only have a positive result if she is pregnant.  It takes a couple of minutes to pee on that stick and once you are a few weeks pregnant, you can take it any time of day.  If she won't take the test, then tell her to stop contacting you about it.  Wish her luck and move on.

Hope that helps.