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Hey. So theres this guy who isnt a vergin. and he knows i am. and he wants to hookup, but do u think....like i if we makeout and he like fingers me...and i only want him to use one finger....or maybe two but ive never gotton two in before so like what im trrying to say is that. would it hurt rele bad?

Babygirl38756208734 · Answer

hey thanks  ! i agree with all of you and thank you and i dont plan on doing anything im not comfertable with <3

lboogie7729 · Answer

Looking back on my past I wish I had looked at every guy coming at me as a walking, talking petri dish full of germs that could potentially harm me for the rest of your life. You have all the time in the world to get to know yourself, who you really are, before you allow some other person to be intimate with you. Do you realize how many people carry Herpes Simplex 1 and you get that from just kissing? Just because your body may feel the urge to explore, I highly recommend doing it ALONE until you are older and never have sex without a condom. Look at every person as a potential threat to your health if they are wanting to swap bodily fluids, be it just spit or otherwise. I'm not kidding, treat yourself like you are protecting yourself from things that could potentially ruin your life before you're old enough to find someone you care about!

specialmom · Answer

Your profile page says you are thirteen.  I've read your history of posts and find you to be a little obsessed with things. I think you need to speak with your mother.  
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sweetpea03 · Answer

First off, please don't do anything you are not comfortable with. It doesn't matter if he is a virgin or not, he has no right to pressure you to do anything. You do what you feel comfortable doing and hold your ground on the limits you have for how far you are willing to go. No one can tell you if it will hurt a lot or not. Every girls body is different and react differently. Most likely, it wouldn't be anything really painful. Just remember to only do what you want to, not just following along with his plans.