If you want it private, you can hover over the person's name and there should be a column on the righthand side that says "Leave a Note," "Send Message," and "Add as Friend." If you hit "Send a Message," it will be private. If you do as specialmom directed, it will be community.
How do I know what is private on my home page/profile and what is community?
Hi. Well, you just did. Go to the top of this page and click on the orange button "post a question". Then write what you'd like to. People will then comment. good luck