is it normal to feel bord during sex?

[suga_baby]

ok well i am 6mnths prego with my 2nd baby and i have been feeling seriously confused because with my first pregnancy my sex drive was wild i wanted it all the time and thats how this pregnancy started out but latlely i just dont want it sleep is so much better because sex hurts me now i get really bad abdominal cramping so i just dont want it but i dont make my hubby go with out so i do it to please him and dont get me wrong he gets me in the mood but its just that i no it going to hurt so i procrastinate in doing it, the only way i can do it now is on bottom but even thrusting my hips cause cramping so basically i lay there and i hate getting turned on cuz my hubby finishis before i do so it frusterates me but the other night we were doing it and it just seems to start the same way a lil 4 play then bam we do it and its done well after i felt ashamed cuz i felt like it was boring and ive never been bord before during sex ever even when my husband goes to quick i get a bit grumpy but never have i felt bord and now i feel like a horrible wife cuz i was told your not supposed to feel bord ever with the man of ur dreams but idk if its him or if it my hormones or if it just doing the bottom position all the time , cuz sex still felt good but not like it des when i have a great sex drive ya no so idk if it hormones or what im lost this never happend to me ever my hubby is understanding but i dont want to never enjoy sex again im only 20 is it normal to get bord with sex sometimes or what i just need advice cuz i dot want to be like my parents were and never have sex ever...

[suga_baby]

thank u guys i appreciate the advice .sweet pea i am happy and i thank u just got bord with position i talkd to him he understands, and yes i need to start telling him more wen i want it thanks guys

[teko]

Hormones and body changes during this time are normal and temporary. The other thing is you need to be selfish enough to let your man know that if he is not going to take the time to please you, then don't start something he cannot finish. That is selfish on his part and once you start tolerating sex, its like a virus and takes over. You have just as much right to get off as he does.

[HeatherLF16]

I am 37 weeks pregnant, and I feel the same way. I actually had a few complications that started around 30 weeks and had to go without for a while and that actually has made me want it now that the baby will be safe starting last week.  I was thankful for the break...lol.  Before my "rest" I felt the same as you.  It's normal in pregnancy to not want it or go back and forth.  Not only the hormones, but just being bigger and uncomfortable.  Maybe you can just explain to your husband that the physical changes are taking it's toll and explain that it is not him at all, but a few things would make it a little more comfortable for you.  Hope you feel better soon =)

[sweetpea03]

Hormones can do a lot of things, so it could just be hormonal, which means it'd be temporary. Though if you aren't happy then you need to talk to your husband about it. Tell him what you want. If you want foreplay to last longer or if you want him to do something differently, tell him. Open communication is key to any good relationship. He can't read your mind, so you have to talk to him. I'm sure you can work it all out. Good luck.