is it normal

[dgrant16]

this might sound wierd, but when me and my boyfriend have sex...it feels as if im super tight or thats he is extra big...and its gets painful sumtimes. Sumtimes i forget the pleasure becuz the discomfort gets too bad. And after we are done, im swollen and my vagina is sore. The real problem is that when i use the restroom, it burns but only until the swelling goes down. Is this normal, is it just sumthing i have to grow out of...or get used to. And i have been tested negative for all STDs and HIV, so thats not it.

[GRose]

I wanted to add that sex should never be painful after the first couple months of loosing your virginity. So if it has been a while you may need to go get checked out.

[GRose]

You could try some lubrication. Maybe you guys need to take it a little slower, let your b/f know that you are in pain and to be more gentle.
If it doesn't get better over time you may want to seek a dr.'s help.