RUN!! NOW!!
This is HIS problem. Leave Him to take care of his own problem before You are harmed!! This is HIS to fix - YOURS is to seek Your saftey. Please listen to everyone here
Lol, its okay, I actually like it :) I got my profile name from a Slipknot song (my fav band) the song is actually called Dead memories.. I am sure people look at my profile name and are like WTF does that even mean, I assure everyone I am not Goth or a devil worshipper, LoL. I am a Huge fan of God/Jesus. :) I do love my heavy metal music... ok, I am rambling...
I found my soulmate almost 3 years ago (August 23rd is our anniversary) I was still married to my abusive husband but I filed for divorce while he was in prison.. I do want you to know that there are wonderful men out there and you will find one, there is one out there just for you :)
But please do end this relationship! You're a strong woman... Us women are strong!
Krystal
I'm sorry, I don't know why I add a girl to your user name deadmemory. Oops I know you are a girl but am NOT trying to rename you. LOL
deadmemory has given you heartfelt advice from her own experience, which is the best kind.
I would say that a simple answer to your question about psychological help for him working, is I don't know. Perhaps. But he'd have much work to do.
And this isn't your concern. A woman shouldn't stay around after the first episode of physical abuse. It is always unacceptable and if someone can 'lose that much control' to hurt the one they love------ they are flat out dangerous. What if kids he has irritate him (as they all do every once in a while)? He can say sorry all he wants but hurting his kids, his girlfriend, or anyone is never okay.
You need to move on and if you find that hard to do, I suggest that you yourself see a counselor because often there is a pattern involved that can repeat. Most people will pick up and leave as soon as this type of thing starts. When a woman does not, it should be explored. I'd hate for you to have to go through this again.
Good luck dear but listen to deadmemory girl. She's been there.
Hello dear,
I am sorry you are going through all of this. I too was in an extremely abusive relationship for 4 years. My advice to you is to leave him immediately. He is a grown man, if he harms himself that is on him, not you!! Hope you have a good day and know you're not alone,
Krystal