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[chloebabyone]

Right okay...im 36 weeks pregant. My boyfriends sisters think im full of lies because    i told my boyfriend my due date and he got it wrong and told them the wrong date and now his sister has the wrong flight booked for the week i aint due also i brought my neices and newphews out for halloween and because my boyfriends sisterdidnt see me out with the kids she has my boyfriend told and nearly convinced im cheating on him. Im sick of being called a liar when all i do is pass on exactly what i hear but seriously is there a chance for me and my boyfriend when he is actually considering that i could have cheated on him?? I cook and clean daily for him and always pay for extras expenses because i just dont want the hassle...advice please

[littlepeanut_14]

I meant 29 weeks. Not 39

[littlepeanut_14]

That's terrible. I'm sorry u are going through that especially with being pregnant. My situation is almost similar to yours and from experience, I would go spend time with family if he's going to be a jerk about it n not trust you. You're not married. People like my boyfriend think that just because 2 people have a child together they should stay together. I wish I was stronger n left before the baby was born. Would have been easier. And like you I do all the cooking, cleaning, n paying for the bulk of the bills n extras. No appreciation. It's so frustrating. Now I'm pregnant with my s cond which is his new, but he commented one time and said, "is it even mine?" I'm so close to leaving and going to stay with my parents. I left for a week n stayed with a friend. Didn't talk to him but ended patching things up. What a surprise, nothing has changed. So please, I know it's hard but if this is your first n all this stuff is causing u both problems, it's something u shouldn't have to put up with. Because of the stress from my situation, I've been ordered on bedrest by my OB due to a thinning cervix n being dilated 3 cm at 39 weeks. I'm 34 weeks now. Good luck. Hope it all works out for the better.

[Lee86lee]

When someone accuses you of something without prove than they mean they are guilty of something. I wouldn't tell you to leave your man because I won't be there to fill in the gap to help you. You and him need to have a serious conversation about where y'all relationship stands and what is most important. Why clean and cook for someone who doesn't appreciate it? Communication is key.

[aimeeaiman]

I think his sister is the issue, and she is better off staying away from you guys. Less drama, if he is insecure let him be or talk to him upfront and put end to this. Its not easy having a baby and putting you through all this stress.

[chloebabyone]

Thanks for the advice. I totally agree...cheat this late in pregancy what a joke. I am loyal i have notting to hide its just im starting to realise you just cant please some people.

[Momma_Chicken]

The devil is working his magic aint he. I think the bf is making excuses and a mess of you with his own bs. His accusations towards you are outrageous. Maybe he is the one doing what he's accussing. Thats what i would question. Men are selfish and especially one that puts you through this while your pregnant. He needs a wake up call, he should be helping you with house hold chores. Im loyal, and itll be the end when he questions my loyalty, cause i know Then somethings going on with him, not me.

[Amy1830]

His sister sounds like she likes to cause trouble. I think it would be very odd for a 36 month pregnant woman to start cheating in her bf. Has your boyfriend considered how weird that sounds? No offense to you but I don't think there are alot of guys out there looking for pregnant women about to give birth so I think it would be pretty unlikely that you would be cheating. I think he needs to have more trust in you and stop listening to his sisters bad mouth you. Where is his loyalty to his child's mother?

[peppy187]

honestly if he's doubting thats his problem that normally means he is insecure in some way. your best bet is to just ignore the drama from everybody else, sit down and talk to him. and honestly if he doesn't believe you he's never going to it sounds to me you both just need to sit down and talk and if his sister is causing problems he needs to realize that and have a long talk with the sister because it's not fair to you expecially if your innocent

[Kb140216]

Too much drama, Mama! If you're cooking and cleaning and what not on top of being pregnant and he's not convinced that you're not cheating then you should let him go. It's difficult getting things done the further you get so when would you have time to cheat? I'm sure some have done so, but if he's not willing to really hear you out then it seems like he's already made up his mind about the relationship. IMO you should make a decision soon on whether it's worth it to deal with this or move on.

Having a baby will be a lot of work in every aspect of the word. You don't want the drama to take up your energy nor would you want it affecting what should be a happy moment in your life. Stay focused on you and the baby.