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669282 tn?1314107922

well go back or move on?

ok well i was dating this guy, John, for about a good 3 years. then i find out he was cheating on me with my best friends sister, Jenna, we break up. not even 3 weeks later we get back together. then he breaks up with me the night of homecoming the month after that. the reason for that was his girlfriend, Amanda, moves back to minot with her dad and John wants to get back with her. THEN heres the good part. shes NOW A LESBIAN! (now i have nothing agants gay people, sorry if i offended anyone) then he finds this out then wants US to get back together for the 3rd time! i kinda still have feelings for him i mean 3 years we shared and they were wonderful, but i feel like i want him back yet i dont.

please i need some advice!
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I am glad to hear you say, "i'm DONE with guys like him". You do not deserve to have someone treat you this way. You are a pretty girl and you shouldn't let anyone treat you any worse than you treat them. If you give repect, you should receive repect. I believe when we all decide not to settle for less than we give the world will be a better place.
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669282 tn?1314107922
wow, you know after reading all of your guy's advice i started to think about it and really i think i should move on leave him and NOT turn back. yes it may be hard for me but i feel its the right thing i dont want any more heartache. im DONE with guys like him. i DONT need a boyfriend who plays these mest up games.

thank you very much! =]
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You're too young......and this is middle school bahavior.  He can't make up his mind WHAT the heck...better yet, WHO the heck he wants to be with.  You be the better/bigger person by not getting back together.  Simply put.  
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668927 tn?1225727524
I am going to have to agree with all the girls before me. I don't think what he's doing to you is fair. Wouldn't you rather know this guy from the 3 good years that you shared, rather then lousy years that may follow? Because, from the sounds of it the relationship you two share is not at all what it used to be. If you keep letting him dump you for the next best thing and take you back when it fails, then really...what is your true value to him? Not much. Just follow your heart, but to an extent. The heart wants what it wants. Be a smart girl and don't forget to use your brain along with it.
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145992 tn?1341345074
Wow, what's so wonderful about this guy that makes you still want him after all of that?  He doesn't want you, he just doesn't want to be alone.  It has nothing to do with you.  You are probably a great girl and he knows that you would most likely do anything for him.  That's why he keeps coming back.  Hold your head high and walk away from him.  He doesn't deserve you at all.
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404138 tn?1308941656
momagain59- LMAO...good thinkin!
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Just because you have already wasted 3 good years on this guy, doesn't mean you need to waste anymore. Maybe you could tell him that you are a LESBIAN and no longer interested in him.
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he just wants you for the sex.
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404138 tn?1308941656
like the wind.....and as far away as possible...

hehe, honestly! he's no good for you
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404138 tn?1308941656
lol run as fast as you can...
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put on new running shoes an runnnnn
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404138 tn?1308941656
yep....she should be on the front burner...better yet...the only kettle on the stove! lol
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484465 tn?1532214032
please leave him
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82861 tn?1333453911
Kick him to the curb sweetheart.  He's just a low-life user.
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404138 tn?1308941656
Ooooh girl!CMON he's got you on the back-burner, how's it feel? Not too good, huh. Why would you consider getting back with him.

I was going to tell you to weigh out the pro's and cons but obviously he's a cheater and doesnt know what he wants....it can't get any worse than that....unless you like the drama !?

There are other fish in the sea! Other guys who wont leave you in a heartbeat for someone else- than turn around and come running back......ONLY because he knows he can. You let him succer you into coming back-no matter what your there.

Maybe its about time you think about being single and making yourself happy until the right guy comes along.......who will actually stick around!
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