why is my husband looking at this woman?

[mia443]

I think my husband doesn't love me enough. He eyes this other woman in church who is very tall , dresses nice , pretty in her 40s. This past Sunday she was volunteering at the greeting booth. His body language..very excited. then later I caught him looking for her at the booth. Am I paranoid...or I don't like this . We did argue before church..

[Londres70]

Arguing before church about this.......well, don't do that.  

This is nothing dear.  My husband looks at other women and I look at other men.  

Humans are wired to appreciate beauty whether it is in a form of a painting or a man or a woman.  

I wouldn't worry about it.  

[Life360_Dave]

Hi you mention still not enough and you might want to expand on this thought as herein might lie the answer.

[specialmom]

Honestly, men do look at other women even when in a relationship.  It is usually meaningless.  I will occasionally check out a good looking man without thinking I want to be with him or anything more than admiring his attractiveness . . .   no big deal.  It's human nature.  

I think you are reading too much into this and am wondering why you are so insecure.  good luck

[mia443]

true..voys will be boys...thank you. , petite keep myself in shape..look good for him..still not enough

[Life360_Dave]

Hi and welcome. Just tell him your uncomfortable that hes doing this in front of you. There is nothing inherently wrong seeing beauty in another human being and always remember that men will be boys!