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1 time unprotected sex penial to vaginal (did not perform oral)
july 8 i made the worst decision ever. i never had sex before i was so curious and i hooked up with somebody i did not know (not going to give an idea how i hooked up so other wont get the idea and be carless like me) i feel so stressed cant focus on the things i do. it is killing me. i did not know her. i just had vaginal sex for like 7 mins. and i was done. today is almost 7 weeks. i been thru hell. i was so addict to watching porn and i felt guilty for watching it. i wanted a scapegoat and i was curious about sex. and this hooking was it i did it and it is not worth it. not even 0% worth it. ive a learned it a lot. but it is so scary to learn sad, frustrated, mad, angry. i have a gf she is a virgin. i was too till that day. i only kissed her once a while and made out like 2 times since then. she thinks i dont like her or something. truth is what i thought was a lie. i thought i loved her. but if i did i would have not done it (we planned to wait till marriage and then i screwd up) but now i love her. and i know it. once i know i am STD free. i want to give her the biggest kiss ever! ( question i made out twice after this incident will she get any STD? i deserve getting it but i hope i did not i never want to give her any disease, she deserves better. this one unprotected sex is killing me. i am going to be faithful, try not to watch porn ( after this incident i lost intrest in porn)
after 9days of the incident i got tested for : chalmadyia, gonoorha, syhillis and hiv all were negative but i believe that was too early. so i got tested after 5 weeks for the same thing and it was all negative. but i am worried about herpes, after a month from that day i had like a razor cut on either side of my mouth first i got it in the right corner and then left but about 5days it is getting healed, it doest hurt when left by itself but only when i touch it it sligtly hurts it hurted the most when i opend my mouth since it was stretching it hurted. my skin on the lips tore but there was no soar or pain or anything it was my lips skin were peeling 3 diff spots but never did it burn or hurt and i did not see the peeling the next day. when i close my mouth it looked normal, but when i open at the edge of my mouth is were i see the razor cut. my throat kinda feels discomfort or like needel pricking, not all the time but sometime. and i cough now and i can feel mucus dripping back and it felt like this for month now, doctor gave me azithromycin for cough it was week 3 after the encounter and i tested on after 9 days and again on week 5 all were negative, can it be false negative since i took azithromycin on week 3? also the next day after my encounter i felt like a burnin sesation or like a heat sensation on my stomach, and i started to pass lose stool, sometimes once a day sometime like 2 time or sometimes 3 max, most of the time i passed lose stool and i could see food particles, i never payed close attentation but after this incident i pay close attention to anything and it freaks me out and make me wanna cry and sad. please help me what test to get for and i can assure you i never had a STD before, i was not only virgin but i always have a clean smooth face no blister or anything i had in the past. currently it is just the razor cut on the both side of my mouth which seems to be healing. can you please help me and guide me what test and when so i can be sure this stomach bug thingy and feeling bit discomfort in the throat and recently this razor cut are not from std. please help and guide me. i want to be happy again, i never realized how perfect my life was before and one unprotected sex can kill all your happiness. please guide me till i know i am STD free. thank you very much!
after 9days of the incident i got tested for : chalmadyia, gonoorha, syhillis and hiv all were negative but i believe that was too early. so i got tested after 5 weeks for the same thing and it was all negative. but i am worried about herpes, after a month from that day i had like a razor cut on either side of my mouth first i got it in the right corner and then left but about 5days it is getting healed, it doest hurt when left by itself but only when i touch it it sligtly hurts it hurted the most when i opend my mouth since it was stretching it hurted. my skin on the lips tore but there was no soar or pain or anything it was my lips skin were peeling 3 diff spots but never did it burn or hurt and i did not see the peeling the next day. when i close my mouth it looked normal, but when i open at the edge of my mouth is were i see the razor cut. my throat kinda feels discomfort or like needel pricking, not all the time but sometime. and i cough now and i can feel mucus dripping back and it felt like this for month now, doctor gave me azithromycin for cough it was week 3 after the encounter and i tested on after 9 days and again on week 5 all were negative, can it be false negative since i took azithromycin on week 3? also the next day after my encounter i felt like a burnin sesation or like a heat sensation on my stomach, and i started to pass lose stool, sometimes once a day sometime like 2 time or sometimes 3 max, most of the time i passed lose stool and i could see food particles, i never payed close attentation but after this incident i pay close attention to anything and it freaks me out and make me wanna cry and sad. please help me what test to get for and i can assure you i never had a STD before, i was not only virgin but i always have a clean smooth face no blister or anything i had in the past. currently it is just the razor cut on the both side of my mouth which seems to be healing. can you please help me and guide me what test and when so i can be sure this stomach bug thingy and feeling bit discomfort in the throat and recently this razor cut are not from std. please help and guide me. i want to be happy again, i never realized how perfect my life was before and one unprotected sex can kill all your happiness. please guide me till i know i am STD free. thank you very much!
thank you! have you checked my pics?
http://postimg.org/gallery/61gigyis/ac5361ba/
let me know what you think?
http://postimg.org/gallery/61gigyis/ac5361ba/
let me know what you think?
COMMUNITY LEADER
If you had unprotected sex and worry about your girl then test for the below post exposure:
HIV and herpes---------3 months
syphilis-----------6 weeks
trich------------one week
youve already tested for the others so this about wraps it up.
HIV and herpes---------3 months
syphilis-----------6 weeks
trich------------one week
youve already tested for the others so this about wraps it up.
http://postimg.org/gallery/61gigyis/ac5361ba/
there is my inside mouth pic see if you can see anything unusual?
there is my inside mouth pic see if you can see anything unusual?
is there any other STD test you think i should do? and i am up loading the pic tell me what you think i will send a link on next reply the pics are uploading
COMMUNITY LEADER
3months and it would be accurate but need to see the results to clarify it.
thank you for replying! i am encouraged by what you have said!can i give you a link of the pics of side of my mouth? it came like after a month. it felt like a small skin cut other was even slightly bleeding and it was hurting when i was stretching it like opening my mouth, right now like after 5 days when i stretch now it doesnt hurt but there is slight tiny healing bump after a cut skin. tomorrow will be 7 weeks. 5 more weeks to be sure? so if i dont have symptoms even in 12 weeks and if i had herpes would it test positve then ? like the accuracy?
COMMUNITY LEADER
Hi, you tested negative for gono and chlamydia so you dont have them. The 2 symptoms that occur with these are urethra discomfort and a white penis discharge and you didnot have them either. Taking a the meds after the test would not cause a false negative. From all you wrote your not positive for these.
The concern about herpes and the razor cuts on the sides of your mouth are mostly just razor cuts as they can occur if you open your mouth too wide and esp if the mouth is dry. Use to happen to me also.
To confirm if your ok with everything, for your girlfriends safety maybe has a herpes igg type specific 3 months post exposure.
Your interactions as far as kissing and oral herpes there would be a risk if you have it but then again its estimated that 70% of the adult population would test positive for hsv1 as was acquired at childhood.
Getting all these diseases from a one time encounter is really being overly concerned esp if you did not have any symptoms. Your stomach is not a symptom of any std.
The concern about herpes and the razor cuts on the sides of your mouth are mostly just razor cuts as they can occur if you open your mouth too wide and esp if the mouth is dry. Use to happen to me also.
To confirm if your ok with everything, for your girlfriends safety maybe has a herpes igg type specific 3 months post exposure.
Your interactions as far as kissing and oral herpes there would be a risk if you have it but then again its estimated that 70% of the adult population would test positive for hsv1 as was acquired at childhood.
Getting all these diseases from a one time encounter is really being overly concerned esp if you did not have any symptoms. Your stomach is not a symptom of any std.
but to clearify i only made out with my gf 2 times maybe 3 but anything other then that, i really dont want to pass anything std to her
my gf and me are together for almost 2 and a half year. and i made a mistake by hooking with a diff girl only for sex. i never hav had se with my gf, and i dint want to till marriage, i was a boi now i am a man but i just hope i did not catch any disease i am so afraid i dont want to give my gf anything, i wish i thought about all this before hand, it is too late...:/
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
