Doctor, can you either help, reassure, calm, or...

[anonguilt]

Okay, Nov. 25 I performed fellatio without completion. The minute I left his place, I felt sick. Since then, my neck nodes have been either sore or tender, with my throat being irritated. This pain radiates up and down the sides of my face. I first thought it might be sinus drainage, but the pain is still with me (Today is Dec. 10). Recently (last few days) I have had pain in my jaw muscles, but throat pain had subsided. No fever (slightly elevated), rash, or diarrhea ever within the past two weeks. I have been getting single 'hive' on various parts of my body though, with a white coated tongue as well as chills in the days and night sweats. Also, I can feel a tad sore in an armpit for a few minutes or groin for the same amount of time.

Monday (Dec 8, week&6 days post exposure) i had an EIA HIV test which was negative.

Can you speculate what my jaw/node pain can be? Can I rest easy with the results of my EIA? When I go to the ER (I doubt there are STD clinics in my area) what should I tell them to look at?

I need your advice... my jaw is killing me.

P.S. where actually are nodes in my neck? the bulk of pain i feel is directly inside my jaw line at the back of my face (under wisdom teeth area)

[auntiejessi]

First, if you only gave fellatio, and didn't receive, you can't have a genital infection.  Your testicle pain isn't related to this, then.

You have no chance of HIV from this encounter, as oral doesn't transmit HIV.

Your chances of stds is low, and includes gonorrhea and syphilis.  You can easily get tested for those at your doctors or at a clinic.

Neck nodes are not part of stds, so you might want to post that in the ear nose and throat forum.

Aj

[anonguilt]

also, i have been having testicular 'uncomfort' 3-4 out of a 1-10 scale, and the back of my neck has been sore