HPV/HSV risk with outercourse

[foteinifr]

Hello there!I hope I get some clarity in this situation because I'm very stressed.Last Friday I invited my ex in my house and we slept together (no sex,just sleeping in the same bed).When we woke up,he tried to penetrate me but I was wearing my panties (thank God) and I pushed him over and I told him to stop.Nothing else occured that day.The thing is that this individual is high-risk and has had multiple sex partners (and I highly doubt he uses protection).I'm worrying because when he tried to penetrate me ,although i was wearing normal thick panties and not a thong,his penis came in brief contact with my buttocks whick were not covered by the panties.I'm really concerned and furious because he didn't ask for permission and stupid at the same time. .Anyway,what is the risk of HSV/HPV from this contact?I had HPV in the past and I really don't want to live this nightmare again.Also,i would like to add  that I have gotten the gardasil 9 vaccine which protects from 9 strains of the virus.Thanks for your attention.

[auntiejessi]

There is no risk here. The skin on your buttocks is too thick for HPV or HSV to penetrate, and it doesn't go through clothing, like underwear.

I understand the trauma of this - both the unwanted contact and the thought of living through HPV again - but you had no risk, and don't need to worry about an STD from this. :)

[foteinifr]

Thank you so much for your help auntiejessi!This forum is amazing and educational.Keep up the good work! :)