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Help. Spots after Hand Job

Hi,

Im in a long term relationship with a female and we are engaged.

I had a moment of weakness where I received a hand job after a full body massage at an unlicensed massage shop.

I'm in a panic as I have unprotected sex with my partner and wanted to understand whether I could have caught anything from this moment of weakness.

Could I have contracted any STIs even to say herpes, warts, or molluscum?

Three days after I noticed a few small spots around the middle section towards the top section of my penis shaft. It appears like dried skin at the start as it was more skin colour more on the white side. Some of the dried skin was infact tiny spots.

I'm on day 4 now and can still see the spots there or maybe other ones. I don't know if they were there already.

Would this be totally unrelated to the hand job and can I continue having unprotected sex with my partner so I can put this all behind me?

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You should have told them what happened. So that they can consider the lesions related to stds.
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I know. I should have told them. It looks like a raised flesh and white color spot. Would an irritation cause this type of symptom?  Does herpes, warts, molluscum usually start symptoms after 2 days as that's when I first noticed the spot which looks more raised now and a little bigger like a pimple. Would you still think this is normal skin stuff and not std stuff?
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You should have told them what happened. So that they can consider the lesions related to stds.
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Can you take a picture so i can have a look?
Send me a link via imgur.
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I went to doctor and didn't tell them my story. I asked him to check the spots and they said that it's jothinf contagious. Should I have said what happened to give complete picture in case they misdiagnosed  me or should I stop thinking about it and move on?
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I dont think the spots will appear that soon. There is an incubation period.
I recommend u go see a doctor.
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I'll go do that. Do you think it may be STI related or something else based on what I've told you?
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This is more of a normal skin stuff. It is very common.
Since u only did handjob, u can have unprotected sex w ur fiance.
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Thanks for help. There are a few spots still there towards the top of my shaft. Should I be concerned at all as an STI? They are very tiny raised and more in white skin colour.
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Molluscum can be transmitted when in contact with the "sores" or area of infection.
Others the risk is negligible.
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Would the molluscum sores appear so soon? Should I be worried or put this down to normal skin stuff?
Do you think I can continue having unprotected sex with my fiance?
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