Okay the story goes as follows.
Feb 14 I went for my annual testing. Results= all negative.
Between Feb 14 - May 14 ( my next test) I had full sexual contact with 5 friends with benefits between those 3 months.
My May 14th test came back positive for chlamydia in Urine. Never happened before.
So I notified the people I had sexual contact with, to go get tested etc.
They all did. They all took antibiotics, as thats the standard before results are given, if a partner tested positive for an STD.
They all contacted me back eventually, EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM tested Negative for Chlamydia.
4 out of the 5 I believed would be negative, as I used protection during sex. But one never knows.
What mystifies me is the day I had my last sexual contact, earlier in the day I woke up after falling asleep without turning the heater on the night before during a cold weather spell earlier in May around here. So I woke up feeling like I was coming down with a cold. That a cold is coming on feeling. Stuffy nose. Slightly runny. That same day I had sex with a long time friend WITH NO CONDOM, I came inside them. No protection. Nothing.
The next day that cold that I was coming down with came in full force, sneezing, stuffy, runny nose. It passed after 4 days. I hadn't got a cold like that for a long long time. I dont normally get colds. 3 days after feeling better it was my annual testing time, so 7 days after my last sexual contact without a condom... And the test results came back positive for chlamydia in my urine as mentioned.
I for sure thought that this is where I got it, or at least passed it on. I mean no condo, I for sure thought I gave it to them.... It was as a long time friend who only has sexual contact with me every few weeks, I never had issues before... But when they got their results after all the worry, and drama going on inside my head and guilt after thinking I may have infected them.. THEY WERE NEGATIVE. All stds negative.
I have read chlamydia can be dormant... But if its bacteria, either you have it, or you dont. So I'm confused. If my Feb test was negative, maybe it was false negative... Then why wasnt the person I had sex with in Feb after testing positive? It was protected, but there was grinding, slight dipping etc.
Every single person, was negative, even the person I was with WITHOUT A CONDOM, 1 week prior to testing, came back negative? It mystifies me? It seems like I wasnt contagious, UNTIL after I had a full blown cold. And if I was to have had sex with someone after my cold, they could have been infected?
Whats done is done.. I got treatment. As did the people I was with. But it still baffles me, how someone, can have 5 sexual partners that all test Negative, even the 1 partner where no condom was used 7 days prior to being tested? How?