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Im lost....somebody help

Hope somebody can help me, i'm a 29 years old male. and got very drunk one night 6 months ago and had unprotected anal (giving/receiving and unprotected oral sex (giving receiving) with a transvestite... there wasn't much penetration and no ejaculation.
The very next morning after horrifyingly realizing what i had done i had this pain in the top of my penis, in the space of 1 week i could feel this pain move slowly up my penis and into my body.
That's when all my stomach problems started,
i got diarrhea which was bad at the start but lasted at least 2 months on and off. i went straight to the doctors(after 1 week exposure) my urine sample showed that i had an infection they did the full std test( negative obviously) and gave me tabs for possible chlamydia/gonorrhea. other symptoms after 1-2 weeks post exposure were feeling off balance, fuzzy vision, lack of coordination, heavy head, fine shakes in hands. i was also urinating like every 20 minutes for about 4 weeks(clear urine) accompanied by a stinging pain, my glands in my throat were also swollen after about 3 weeks.
i had another full std test done after 6 weeks also negative. I had a test done after 14 weeks also negative. i haven't lost any weight, but i have lost fat in my face... my eyes and cheeks a very sunken and i don't look good at all, also lost meat on my arms and legs even though i try to work out. my stomach is the main problem, i have chronic bloating and constant stomach noises and slight fatigue. the doctors have done every blood and stool test and they don't know whats going on!! i have been so stressed out for the past 6 months and have been having dark thoughts, this has ruined my life, and i don't know what to do. Is there other diseases you can get from unprotected anal sex that's not been tested for?? that encounter i had has totally destroyed my gut.
or do i need another test?

Any advice would be much appreciated thanks
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Your STD tests are good, have you tested for HIV?
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yes hiv test was icluded in all std tests
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What medicines did they give you?
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They gave me 4 tablets to swallow and a shot in the butt
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I did ask the doc would those meds have affected my stomach and he said not usually but it would have been brief had it had
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anybody got a clue ??
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Clue for what?
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of whats going on with my gut??..
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Nothing related to a STD.
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its directly related to the sexual encounter i had.
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No it is not
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i got some sort of infection from that encounter, not a stomach bug not a stomach virus, i got something from the encounter. i know my own body. i dont care what the test says this all started from that encounter.
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Could be mental, all that stress from the incident. It is amazing what the brain can do.
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I would say your feeling stressed from your encounter.  I just a recent exposure due to my own stupidity.  I'm being treated for a possible STD with antibiotics and my blood pressure is really high.  Partly because of the infection/treatment and also because of my own anxiety.  It's been a pretty horrible experience.  So if your understand a lot stress your stomach is going to suffer.  You get another panel of STD testing done but I'm sure it will come up negative.    
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It was a very traumatic experience that lasted for 3 months. So yeah maybe i could have damaged my gut with all the stress.
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I'm gonna go to a std clinic for a consultation tomorrow, and ask them what they think might be wrong, iv'e read people getting sick from these encounters but testing negative. i mean they just test for the main std's, but i know there is a lot more bacterial infection you can get from anal sex.
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