Can you please comment on this?
Is there any need for me to consider pep?
First of all, HIV, can only be transmitted via fluids. HIV cannot lay on the skin. HPV, Herpes, and syphilis can be transmitted via close contact. For example, vulva to vulva action, or even kissing. 80% of American adults have herpes, but are not aware. Getting tested to know for sure is the best route. It costs a small amount, but you will know for your and others' sake. My husband and I just recently discovered we tested positive for both forms of herps, and we still have a nice sex life, and now that we know exactly what the problem is, are able to take the precautions we need to take to keep others and ourselves healthy.