I am a married man who has been 10 years together with my wife and never did anything out of my marriage. Since some months ago a just separated workmate is trying to have something with me, I always refused.
41 days ago in a party we all drank too much and for some seconds she did unprotected oral sex to me. Because of the alcohol I had no complete erection. I did oral sex to her for some seconds too.
At that moment I had a reaction in my mind "what am I doing?" and stop the situation.
Something that surprised me was that she wanted to continue having vaginal sex even we didn't have any condom. Of course we did not.
I decided to go to the doctor after 38 days, a doctor whose language I can speak but not perfectly.
I had no symptoms of gonorrhea, chlamydia or anything else in this time, at least if I had I don't remember.
He explored my penis, testicles, pressed gangles and found nothing strange.
The doctor told me the risk was very low, anyway if I had concerns, I could be tested for HIV and syphilis. Both tests have been negative.
Yesterday when I got the results I asked him why I was not tested for gonorrhea or chlamydia. He answered if that is my wish, can do it, but since no symptoms appeared in 40 days there was no need. Anyway when we explained me what a swab in the urethra was I wanted to jump through the window...
I ask him if I could take the medecine for gonorrhea and chlamydia even the possibilities of having it are so low. He was surprised but finally accepted. I have Azithromycin and Cefuroxime Axetil but I haven't taken it yet.
If I were a single man, I would not be so worried, but I am concerned if my wife some day is tested for STD and find something...then I should have to explain that uncomfortable episode.
After I read about the side effects of these medecines, I have doubts.
I am considering not to take them, and let the doubt punish me during a long time...I work with a lot of female coworkers and this fear will prevent me to do anything like that again.
Or... take the medecine, in that case some side effect may appear, need to go to the doctor, and I will have to explain my wife why I was taking that medecine in secret...