Possibility of STD or oral herpes from 3 sexual encounters with escorts

[Zakk_Alaris]

I have had sex 3 times, and all three were escorts. I want to abstain from sex from now until marriage, but I'm worried I may have an STD.

The first time, I had sex with an escort, she gave me oral with a condom. I briefly licked her vagina, for a few seconds. That's all that happened.

The second time, I received oral with a condom, and we kissed, very deeply. I didn't notice any cold sores. I am worried I may have gotten oral herpes from this encounter. I also rimmed her, but only for a few seconds, without any insertion.

The third time, again, I received oral with a condom. But I was also masterbated without a condom, and she used her saliva to lubricate the area. I know the doctors on this forum say that both oral sex with a condom and masterbation with saliva are low risk activities. But this time, we also kissed, a lot, and very deeply. I didn't notice any cold sores. Again, I am very worried about having oral herpes. I also rimmed this girl, but again only for a few seconds, without any insertion at all.

Thanks.

[gracefromHHP]

even in cultures where sex before marriage is considered taboo, oral herpes is still very common.  Most folks contract it as children from care givers.

your encounters were almost no risk for std's. it's not worth any testing.  it's not worth any worrying.

grace

[Zakk_Alaris]

Just to add, the reason I am worried about getting oral herpes is because I come from a culture in which sexual contact before marriage is absolutely prohibited. Therefor, two marriage partners should theoretically have no diseases transmitted through any kind of sexual contact, including kissing. A lot of people on this forum may say it's not a big deal, but it is to me.