Protected ORAL SEX and risk of STD.

[Vichu123456]

I had an encounter with a transgender women. We shared a deep kiss. She anal fingered me for some time with numbing cream and put on a condom and tried to penetrate me. She had her penis with condom near my anus. But didn't insert it, since I said no. Then she put a condom in my penis and gave me oral sex. I came in less than 1 min. The condom was intact and afterwards I cleaned myself and left.
1)Am I at any risk of catching STI or HIV.
2) Is there any possibility in catching STI from that kiss or oral sex(she had braces).

[auntiejessi]

There is no risk from the kissing at all.

There is a very small risk for syphilis and genital herpes type 1 if she had either orally. You used a condom so the risk is minimal. It's not something I'd even bother testing for, since the risk is so low.

There is a no risk for anything from the attempted penetration or fingering.

There is absolutely no risk for HIV from any of this.

[Vichu123456]

I saw another comment for my query saying there is a small risk with kissing. I am quite confused now. Could you please clarify and gave me a proper understanding about any possible issues and whether I should test myself.

[auntiejessi]

I answered this above. The risk is very small, like Dave said, and statistically, there isn't any real difference between "no risk" and very low risk".

I also said that kissing for a few seconds isn't going to transmit anything, and you don't really need to worry about this.

[Vichu123456]

Thank you

[Life360_Dave]

Hi, what your describing is zero risk with the condom experience and the kissing would be a very small risk for oral herpes and syphilis.

[Vichu123456]

We kissed for only 5-10 sec and it wasn't hard.Can you please elaborate about that small risk?  She said she test for STI every 3 months.
What are my chances of catching something from kissing. I'm quite tensed.

[Vichu123456]

Also she didn't had any sores in her lips, as far as I can remember. She was pretty clean.

[auntiejessi]

The risk is the same with her as if you kiss anyone. If she didn't have any sores on her lips, you can't get syphilis - syphilis requires direct contact with a sore.

You may have oral herpes already. 2/3 of the adult population globally have oral hsv1, and 90% don't have symptoms.

Kissing for 5-10 seconds probably isn't going to transmit oral herpes, so please try to relax. Life360_Dave said it would be a "very small risk", and he's right. It's not worth panicking over.