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Risk from male to male frottage with ejaculation
Hello all,
I'm looking for some help and hoping I can find some here. A few days a go I engaged in male to male frottage with a guy I meet online. He claimed to be disease free and stated he was married to a female with a family. I've read a lot questions and answers on this and other sites regards this topic, but none mention the ricks that come when ejaculation occurs.
He and I engaged in a bit of mutual masturbation and I didn't notice any sign of sores or lesions on his penis. When the frottage began there was a bit of pre-cum that came from me. We rubbed the heads of penis together as well and the shafts for a few minutes if that. I was on top during the frottage act and during the climax I ejaculated on to his penis. He then used my cum as lubricant and finished masturbating until he climaxed. None of his cum ever touched me, I made sure of that.
There was zero penetration, oral or anal, so I know the rick of something major are next to none. My consern has more to do with herpes and other std/sti that can be spread even when there are no signs are present. I didn't mention this earlier, but I am disease free. Was recently tested and have not been with anyone since. Is there any cause for concern on my part? Do I need to get tested again?
I'm looking for some help and hoping I can find some here. A few days a go I engaged in male to male frottage with a guy I meet online. He claimed to be disease free and stated he was married to a female with a family. I've read a lot questions and answers on this and other sites regards this topic, but none mention the ricks that come when ejaculation occurs.
He and I engaged in a bit of mutual masturbation and I didn't notice any sign of sores or lesions on his penis. When the frottage began there was a bit of pre-cum that came from me. We rubbed the heads of penis together as well and the shafts for a few minutes if that. I was on top during the frottage act and during the climax I ejaculated on to his penis. He then used my cum as lubricant and finished masturbating until he climaxed. None of his cum ever touched me, I made sure of that.
There was zero penetration, oral or anal, so I know the rick of something major are next to none. My consern has more to do with herpes and other std/sti that can be spread even when there are no signs are present. I didn't mention this earlier, but I am disease free. Was recently tested and have not been with anyone since. Is there any cause for concern on my part? Do I need to get tested again?
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Hi, if you dont have a regular partner then no testing would be recommended with out genital sores/blisters appearing about 2 weeks later. what you describe would be a risk for herpes and syphilis.
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Hi, thanks for the response.
After my post I realized I didn't mention that I too am in a relationship. I know what I did wasn't smart and it's something that I regret.
It seems like the best course of action after doing a lot of reading would be for me to avoid sex with my partner for the next few weeks and if no signs or smooths appear things should be okay.
I read several other post and responses from doctors that stated my actions were fairly low risk. I will still be careful however and thanks again for the response.
After my post I realized I didn't mention that I too am in a relationship. I know what I did wasn't smart and it's something that I regret.
It seems like the best course of action after doing a lot of reading would be for me to avoid sex with my partner for the next few weeks and if no signs or smooths appear things should be okay.
I read several other post and responses from doctors that stated my actions were fairly low risk. I will still be careful however and thanks again for the response.
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
