Rough Oral Sex & STD Risk

[melissa343]

I am a submissive bisexual female who recently had a threesome with a male and female couple, both of whom are dominant.  I only engage in kissing and fondling with the woman but orally served her boyfriend while he was wearing a condom.  What concerns me is that she placed the condom on him and often was holding the base of his penis and caressing his scrotum while he was thrusting in and out of my mouth after having manually touched and lightly fingering herself.  The past few days I have felt irritation in the back of my throat, which is normal after such rougher and more aggressive oral sex play, but I cannot help worrying that maybe some of her vaginal secretions were on the outside of the condom and entered my mouth.  I've read here other post about even if one were to lick the fingers of a person that were fingering a woman, there is no real risk and similar post concerning hand-to-genital contacts being a very low risk STD exposure.  Moreover (and this is what worries me), the expert forums claim that the viral and bacterial STDs like herpes and gonorrhea need vigorous and prolonged rubbing and friction of mucous skin.  So given that this type of vigorous and prolong rubbing and abrasion occurred in the back of my throat during my oral sex servicing of him, and if there was vaginal secretion transfer to the outside of the condom, could I then be at risk for these kinds of STDs that normally would be associated with unprotected intercourse.  I read that the inside of the vagina in particular has the highest concentration of gonorrhea, so it would seem that after fingering herself, if she transferred any secretions to the condom, then it would be high there too that would then could have been vigorously rubbed against the inside and back of my mouth and throat.  Is there any real worries I should be really concerned over or am I am being paranoid.  

Thank you, M.

[melissa343]

Thanks again!  I appreciate the feedback and hope this thread helps others with similar concerns.

Best,
M.

[gracefromHHP]

no that is not a concern either. we would've told you if it was.

[melissa343]

Don't mean to be a pain, but just to be thorough: would me having licked and kissed the outside of the front of her panties and around that area then have been any concern?  

Thanks again--and for your generosity with your time!

[gracefromHHP]

the body fluids that might've gotten on the condom isn't a risk.

[melissa343]

Thank you Grace.

I have something I should have been more explicit about in hindsight now and a follow-up question.  Forgive my paranoia but even if there was vaginal or seminal (i.e. pre-cum) that was transferred on the outside of the condom this would not have been a risk as far as then having this rougher oral sex?  

Also, in terms of the fondling, I just gently kissed around her still-panty-covered intimate area and licked the outside of the front of her panties.  My real concern there is that there might have been some wetness or moisture that could been transferred to me orally.

Thanks again, and this will be the last I will post about this, as these are my only real concerns.

Best, M.

[gracefromHHP]

this was not a risk for you as far as the oral sex.

the contact you had as far as the rubbing and fondling also isn't a big risk either.

really no reason for testing from this encounter.

grace