I don't know what is going on, but its not sounding STD or HIV related. You'll know for sure when your results are back, but if they are normal, get checked for mono (glandular fever) and get a complete blood count back. Those aren't STDs, but its a starting point.
Aj
Wow,
When I googled Glandular Fever, the symptoms are right on. This is really good news as far as not having a life threatening disease. Thank you. What's interesting is that I just had my annual physical and the blood work did not show anything out of the ordinary. What should I ask my doctor to look for or test?
Also, I see that the treatment is really just rest. How do I do that at 40 years old and lots of responsiblities?
Ask for a test for it - they can test specifically for that.
Well, you just do the best you can, and listen to your body. If you need a nap, take a nap. If you are feeling too tired to do something, don't do it, if you can help it.
I know - mono doesn't fit too well into an adult life, does it?