STD testing advice post anal licking/fingering

[Brit20102010]

STD testing query if I may;

3 weeks ago I was anally licked and fingered by a masseuse- I am v worried.  Only symptoms were a mild hotness down in my buttocks- not anus(?!) for 2 days at the 5 day post the event mark-(possibly due to the irritation of being fingered!?)  No other symptoms at all but I know many folks don't show any symptoms at all...  I have the ability to go for an STD check in the next few days which will be at 26 day mark.  Which STDs should I be testing for in this timeframe?  (the only contact was really the masseuses toungue on my anus and her finger in my anus also- obvioulsy there was saliva involved from her mouth.)

I've posted on the HIV Prevention forum and was obviously told HIV is a marginal risk- would you agree?  I'm thinking about NGU, Syphillis, Ghonnorea and herpes- would that cover it??- or would you recommend more tests and at what timeframe...??

Thanks for your time and all your efforts on this forum to spread  knowledge and educate.

Jim

[gracefromHHP]

you can contract std's from receiving oral sex but overall the risk is very low. we don't recommend any testing unless you develop symptoms - pain with urination or discharge or any obvious rashes.

grace

[Brit20102010]

Vance, greetings once more- I'm sorry to have to look for some more expert advice!

I feel v silly- I had a drunken moment with a friend of a friend the other night.  She did unprotected oral on me and I masturbated her fairly vigorously as well as anally aroused her with a finger.  I was unable to sustain an erection, and I had a condom on when she tried to put me inside her vagina.   I was inside her (protected) for 10 seconds maximum.  

I'm so annoyed I let myself lose focus as she pulled the condom off me and performed oral on me. I did try to put the condom back on- but I think I put it on inside out!!  I'm beside myself with angst and worry about this in partiicular- even although my droopy little fellow (penis) wasn't able to stay straight inside her- like I say, I seemed to flop around for 10 seconds, there was no 'pumping' or 'grinding' .  Was there a huge risk from putting the condom back on inside out from fluids from her?   I have no reason to beleive she's in an 'at risk' category of women that I know, no reason at all.  I'm just trying to assess my risks at this stage.  

She was very excited at the masturbation and she came a few times- I'm worried about this hugely obviously.  

Thanks in advance for any advice offered.

Sincerely,

Jim
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[Brit20102010]

Vance, thanks for the reply- I may have got it wrong from some other reading I've been doing- so for oral to (my) anus contact, not even herpes testing?  Can ghonorrea also get in that way too?  Can saliva not carry all those 'basic STDs'?  Can HSV1 ie oral herpes transfer to the anus- ie become HSV2??

Sorry for my seemingly basic questions.

Thanks for the advice.

Jim.

[Vance2335]

No risk for STD's.

[Brit20102010]

Sorry- poor English- the words I've seen on some posts/forums are 'virtually zero risk' / 'theoretically possible' etc.....or along thise lines- that's what I meant- bad choice of words by me- I realise the risk was only theoretical for HIV.

My question was really one of advice for the other STDs- ie which ones to test for at this stage- and am I in the correct time frame for them?

Sorry for the confusion.

Thanks

Jim.

[Vance2335]

You were never told HIV was a marginal risk. Why would you make something like that up?

You did not have a risk.