STD's risk from frottage and rimming. PLEASE HELP!

[helpothers2018]

Hi experts, please read carefully the details. I had 2 similar encounters with 2 different transgender escorts with 2 months interval. What happened is: some kissing with tongue but not very very deep, oral sex giving and receiving both with condom, sucking nipples, she performed rimming on me for no more than a minute maybe, I licked her anus 2 or 3 times for a 2 seconds that means maybe 10 seconds in total but not very deep, but I did lick for longer time the area around the anus close to it and also sucked her testicules, and we also rubbed our penis together me on top and then her on top and she came on a paper but maybe some drops touched me I can't remember.
My biggest concerns are the rimming parts giving and receiving and the rubbing penises, because her precum was there and may have entered the hole of my penis, and also any drop of her semen touching me. Please tell me the answers with explanation as I am in extreme anxiety.
Also, is it possible to get herpes and other std 's with this described encounter? If yes what is the earliest time to test after these 2 similar encounters?

Thank you so much for reading, wait for your answers asap please.

[helpothers2018]

I'm not talking about the sex worker, I'm asking you to tell me my risk level considering what happened regardless of the other person. Please tell me my chances of getting herpes, syphilis, chlamdyia and Gonorhrrea?

[Life360_Dave]

Hi, kissing him is a risk for oral herpes and licking his anus is a risk for herpes and syphilis. Licking anywhere around his genital area is a risk for herpes and syphilis. no testing is recommended unless you develop mouth sores about 2 weeks to a month later or if you have a long term partner. test for herpes is 3 month post exposure and syphis is 6 weeks.

[helpothers2018]

Thanks Dave!
What is the level of risk I had from these 2 similar encounters? I mean like I said I kissed for a few seconds only and not deep, oral was protected for both of us, but I did lick their testiculea and the bitt skin but not very close to the anys, though I did lick the anus not deep for about 2 seconds, and we rubbed around penises against each other without condom.
Please tell me the level of my risk?

Thank you in advance, I'm in terrible feeling as I'm married

[Life360_Dave]

since your married you need to test for sure for her protection as any risk to to big. if he was a non sex professional its would be consider low risk but since he does this for a living he is exposed to std,s many time a day so its hard to put a risk level on these affairs.